Yes, here it is.

Yes. We plan to mask as much as possible. With a bunch of immunocompromised friends and family, along with our own health stuff, we don't want to get sick. We want this to be fun. So yeah, we'll be masking, and we'd love it if you did too. Need a mask? Just ask. We've got so many.

Go here: https://www.theknot.com/us/sam-ehlinger-and-jake-williams-oct-2025/things-to-do

Nope! Everyone is invited to everything, but you don't HAVE to attend anything. Want to attend the welcome drinks but skip the ceremony and reception? Go for it. Can't make the Hangover Brunch? Totally cool. We just want to see ya.

No. But we are paying the amazing Ray Replogle to capture moments on video and the incredible Amanda DeBusk to take photos. Be present with us and we promise you'll have plenty of visual proof of your attendance.

Absolutely. Come back here after the weekend to see a full list (along with links) to our incredible vendors. We were so selective in this process, and are so excited to work with all of these folks.

YES. We truly do not care what you wear. We want you to be happy and comfortable. There's no secret, unannounced dress code. Nothing that you are supposed to have figured out, or deduced. There. Is. No. Dress. Code. We promise. If you must know, we will each wear suits for the events on Saturday, and Jake refuses to wear any pants that are not jeans on any of the other days, but you really don't need to match that. We're doing the thing because we're doing the thing. You REALLY REALLY SHOULD WEAR THE CLOTHES YOU WANT. WE LOVE YOU IN THOSE CLOTHES. (Just please wear clothes).

Yep. Mutual aid is so important to us, and we want to do what we can to make sure our celebration and joy comes along with helping other folks out. We included the honeymoon option because we know that some of you probably want to support "us," but we really encourage everyone to donate to our mutual aid fund (or a separate one) if anything at all. Your presence is the present, obviously.

I mean, I don't think we'd turn them away, but we really, really, really, really don't need more things. We live very fortunate lives and are able to access the things we need and want, and so while we are happy to be celebrated in a way you prefer, there is absolutely no obligation or need to do this. If you insist on it and want to be extra sure if we like what you're scheming, please reach out and check with us or someone super close to us just in case.

If this is the last one on the page, you can probably bet there's more to come.