Children are welcome to the dance portion of the day, starting at 7 pm! Otherwise, if your children are not listed on the invite or included with your name when you go to RSVP, we respectfully ask you to make other arrangements for your children. We encourage you to use this evening as a date night! Please reach out to me if you have questions on this!

We would love to see our friends and family dressed up & feeling their best for our big day. The dress code can be considered dressy-casual. Ladies can wear floor-length, tea-length, mid-length dresses or jumpsuits/pantsuits. Men can wear long or short-sleeved dress shirts and pants or nice jeans only. Please avoid shorts or white attire.

Please carpool as much as you can! There will be limited parking as this is a backyard ceremony. Thank you!

Please don't stray from the registry! If you're not sure what to get, the gift of money is always appreciated!

There are a block of rooms at the Borders Inn under Phillips -Graff Wedding

Due to limited space, we are only able to accommodate guests formally invited on your wedding invitation. If you have a plus-one it will be included with your name when you go to RSVP. Thank you for understanding!

There will be free drinks available during and after the ceremony. As well as a happy hour with signature drinks, and Beer on tap. However the rest of the evening will be a cash bar.