Cocktail Attire. What does that mean? Cocktail wedding attire is slightly less formal than black-tie and black-tie optional, tuxes and floor-length gowns are not required. (However, you can always opt for longer skirts or formal jackets if you'd like, which are popular choices for autumn wedding attire.) When it comes to deciding what to wear to a cocktail wedding, a suit and tie with a crisp black or white shirt and dress pants is a no-fail choice. You can also wear a short formal dress or an elegant jumpsuit with jewelry.

If you're driving in from the CT/Upstate NY side: If you want to cut out the driving-through-the-city-traffic, I highly recommend taking the ferry over. It's an hour and fifteen minute boat ride, there's food and drinks, and our hotel is within walking distance of where it unloads You can drive your car on, or alternatively, park on the Bridgeport side, and walk on. Parking garage information is as follows: Bridgeport 700 Main Street, Bridgeport, CT 06604 Daily M-F $6.00 / monthly permit $67/or $45 with Metro- North monthly pass (Parking garage closed on weekends) Helpful Websites: Parking Pass - "https://ctrides.com/rail-station-parking-permits/" Ferry Website - "https://www.88844ferry.com"

We're the end of the line! Take the LIRR's Port Jefferson line all the way to the end and then the train station should be about a 5 minute drive to the hotel where we have the block/after party. Alternatively, if you are traveling to just the wedding venue, take the same Port Jefferson line to the St James stop, and that should be about a 4 minute drive to the wedding venue. Helpful Links: Train Schedule - "https://new.mta.info/document/85026 "

Flying in: The three options to fly into are JFK, LaGuardia Airport, or Long Island MacArthur Airport. MacArthur is the closest, however that will also have the most limited flight options. If you are flying in from JFK, or LGA we suggest you rent a car as well, as it will be less than an Uber/Lyft to get around

Yes. Official invites will cover this item in further detail.

Two ways. The official invite will have a response card you can send back to us, OR you can RSVP on this very website using the digital RSVP option. Please send us your acceptance or regrets by October 2, 2024.

The ceremony and reception will both take place at Flowerfield Celebrations, 199 Mills Pond Rd, St James, NY 11780. The afterparty will be taking place at Danfords Hotel & Marina, 25 E Broadway, Port Jefferson, NY 11777. Rehearsal dinner details still being determined, check back soon for updates!

We kindly request a child-free wedding. No kids under 10.

Yes, there will be an open bar at the reception and the after party. Please drink responsibly and eat food. Nobody likes a party-puker.

Please go to the Travel tab for details on hotel booking.

Yes! if weather permits, the ceremony will be held outside. There are also fireplaces and outdoor games that you can take advantage of during the reception. Please note, it's November in Long Island, so temperatures can wildly vary. Be prepared for Spring/Fall/Winter temps, can go either way!

We have little to no space in our apartment, so in lieu of physical gifts, we kindly request a contribution to our honeymoon fund which can be found in the Registry Section.

TBD! We're still working through the details on if we're doing a rehearsal dinner, and official details surrounding the after party. Check back in on this site for further details in the near future. We will update as they get solidified.

Feel free to contact the bride, groom, or mother of the bride with any questions/comments/concerns you may have.

Please call the venue in the event you get lost for directions (631) 862-0100

Pick-up from Danfords to Flowerfields: Bus - 10:45am Departure // Pick-up from Flowerfields to Danfords: Bus - First Departure at 3:00pm, will be making trips until 5:00pm