Is this a Black Tie Event?
No, but it is Semi-Formal. While jackets and ties are not necessary for the men, and dresses for women, we do ask that you come dressed to impress. Button down or collared shirts encouraged for the men, and skirts or dresses for the women. Please, no jeans or t-shirts.
What time is the ceremony?
The ceremony will begin at 4:30 p.m. . Be sure to find your seat before then! Reception will end at 10:00 p.m. .
Can I bring my own alcohol?
No. Alcohol will be provided by Under the Oak catering, and any alcohol not provided by the caterer is PROHIBITED. Beer and wine will be provided between 5pm and 9pm. Bartenders are allowed to cut bar service from anyone whom may have had too much to drink when ever they see fit.
Can I smoke cigarettes?
Yes! But you must smoke in the designated areas, and dispose of your butts in the designated trays. Any littering is subject to a hefty fine.
What time does the reception end?
The bride and groom will be making their grand exit between 9:30 and 10:00 p.m. .
Can I request my favorite song?
Yes! Each guest is allowed to request their favorite song, but keep in mind there is a list of songs, that the bride and groom have provided, that will not be played even upon request.
What is parking like?
There is plenty of parking at the front of the property, and a travel bus will be available to those who choose to use it. You are also more than welcome to walk to the barn from the parking lot. It is a beautiful farm!
Will I have enough food to eat?
Yes! Plenty of food will be served! Hors d’oeuvres will be served during cocktail hour, with a buffet to follow for dinner. Tables will asked to attend the buffet one by one to keep from waiting in line for too long. Then, there will be cake, of course.
Can I come early?
Yes! Although we do not recommend arriving more than 30 minutes prior to the ceremony, as many people will still be getting ready and setting up for the wonderful evening ahead. 4pm is a great time to plan for your arrival.
Is there assigned seating?
Yes, and no. During the ceremony seats will be first come first serve with the exception of the couples family, who will have reserved rows to hide their tears. During the reception, tables will be assigned to certain parties.
Can I bring a plus one?
Unless specified on your invitation, please do not bring an extra guest as we have a select number of food and seats we are prepared for.