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Sandra & TJ

August 6, 2026 • Oberlin, OH
79 Days To Go!

Sandra & TJ

August 6, 2026 • Oberlin, OH
79 Days To Go!

Can I bring a plus-one?

Please ask us on an individual basis! We sent the website link directly to those invited and those who have successfully RSVP'd are visible on the website list. All guests attending in your group should be named individually under your RSVP, including children of all ages. Please do not share the link with anyone who is not named on the attending list.

What should I wear?

Tea party Formal but comfortable. Wear your favorite dancing shoes! We recommend wearing colors that compliment our wedding colors: all shades of green, pink, or purple; Any warm earth tones or classic black are also a great options. Please dont feel obligated to purchase a new outfit for our event. The entire event is indoors at one venue and the parking lot is paved.

Kid friendly?

Kids are to be celebrated. Please make sure you list them individually on your RSVP so we can account for everyone. Music subject to having swears and alcohol will be served to adults 21+ only. Please plan accordingly.

Can I take pictures during the ceremony?

Please enjoy being present in the moment. We will have our photographers at the ready for the big moments. We want them to be able to easily capture people and decor, not phones and other cameras.

What food will be served?

TJ is in charge of this - you know its going to be a good time. If you have a severe airborne allergy, please let us know ASAP. If you have any other allergies, please let us know and we will label dishes that contain those ingredients.

Do you have a registry?

Your presence at our wedding is the greatest gift of all. We are so grateful to already have everything we need to continue our life together. Instead of a traditional registry, we would be truly appreciative of contributions toward our honeymoon and future adventures. We will have a card box set up and digital links available.

Bar?

Yes, please bring tips for our bartending crew.

What is the couple most excited about for their wedding day?

We’re most excited to see all of our favorite people—family and friends—come together, many for the first time. It means so much to us to have everyone in one place, celebrating not only our marriage but the joy of our families and friends finally meeting each other. (Also great food and party).