While we would love to have your little ones join us in celebrating our special day, we completely understand if it’s easier for you to come without them. Please feel free to bring your children, or come as you are—whatever works best for your family!

"Black Tie Optional" gives you the flexibility to either dress formally or choose something a bit more relaxed, while still looking spiffy. That means for men, you can choose to wear a tuxedo (classic black tie), or you can opt for a suit and tie. For women, a formal evening gown, cocktail dress, or dressy pantsuit are all great! Knee-length or floor-length dresses are perfect. Since the wedding is in early Spring, bright colors are encouraged!

As soon as you can, and no later than March 8, 2025 please! This gives us time to do a final head count and make sure everyone is accounted for.

The ceremony starts at 4:00 PM! Literally. So show up early, and try to plan on getting here at least 20-30 minutes before kickoff.