The dress code is formal (black tie optional). A good guideline is suits or tuxedos for men and formal or full length dresses for women.

Right here on the website! Go to the RSVP tab and enter your information. Please RSVP by October 1st.

The reception will end at 11pm. There will be no official after party, however, there are a lot of great bars in downtown St. Louis should you want to keep the party going. For late night bars we recommend Maggie O'Briens (right next to the venue so no need to Uber), the Armory (see the Things to Do page for more information on this spot), or Tin Roof (in Ballpark Village).

We'll be serving hors d'oeuvres at cocktail hour followed by a sit-down dinner with a choice of entree (and of course dessert!). Drinks will include a variety of cocktails, beer, and wine as part of an open bar.

Yes! Union Station has both overnight and day-of parking with both valet and self park options. Downtown St. Louis has a number of other parking garages and lots near Union Station as an alternate option.

Please email us at deffenbacherj@gmail.com or sjnicholson6@gmail.com.