Cody and I have quite the unconventional story to begin with :) We met on an online platform, he initiated the conversation following our "match" by answering my question; "Guess my Enneagram number!" He had guessed a 9 (not far off, some of my best people are 9's). I then corrected him identifying as a 7 [The Enthusiast or Entertainer] and I'm sure if you ask him he will tell you I can be QUITE the enthusiast about some things!
Our first date we met up at Stumpy Pond park for a picnic (yes, that is actually the name of the park & the reason why we selected it). At the time Cody was finishing up medical school in Sumter, SC and I was at home in Monroe, NC. After our first date I was floored with how funny he was and he laid on the charm as he said I was "a beautiful, really cool person".