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Sathia & Jason

Saturday, May 30, 2026 • Buffalo, NY

Sathia & Jason

Saturday, May 30, 2026 • Buffalo, NY
Jessica Carter
Jessica Carter - Maid of Honor
The bride has known Jessica for over 23 years. She is not only an incredible mother and wife, but also a deeply loyal and loving friend. Their bond began through their shared experiences growing up in the LDS church, and their friendship has only strengthened over the years. Despite juggling a full-time job and a busy family life, Jessica shines as the ultimate event planner. Her eye for detail and perfectionist nature make her truly exceptional. Everyone is excited to see her in action as she brings her talent and creativity to planning and coordinating the bridal events.
Amanda Joca Percival
Amanda Joca Percival - Maid of Honor
This little rascal was hopping around Radford back in her adolescent years. I sublet my college room to her one summer while I was home working. I remember wishing so badly that I could be there with her, enjoying those summer days together. We’ve been friends for 26 incredible years. She’s the smartest person I know. After a rocky start in school, she joined the Navy and became a Farsi linguist—we called her “Carrie” from Homeland. Then she went on to finish college, earn her master’s degree, and land the best job in the world. Today, she’s a boss in her own right, and I couldn’t be prouder of her success. (But fair warning—don’t challenge her to Jeopardy, because you will lose.) Life took her to England, where she found the love of her life, but distance has never broken our bond. She’s my ride-or-die chick, my sister from another mister, and always will be. Please ask her to say in Farsi, “Whatcha talking about, Willis?”
Stacey Siefke
Stacey Siefke - Bridesmaid
Stacey is a true ray of sunshine. Affectionately known as “Momma Care Bear,” she’s the one who looks out for everyone and fiercely protects her friends. She and the bride have shared a close friendship for over 20 years. Known for her thoughtfulness and attentiveness, Stacey also brings laughter wherever she goes—her sense of humor, no doubt, inherited from her father. Her creativity is unmatched; if crafting were a profession, she’d be the President of Etsy. Sathia credits much of her strength and confidence to Stacey’s wise and compassionate relationship advice. Anyone would be lucky to call Stacey a friend, and those who do know just how special she truly is.
Dan Penski
Dan Penski - Best Man
Dan's been my cousin for 43 years out of my 46 years of existence. We have literally been attached at the hip since the day we met. He's one hell of a father, husband, IUPAT Union member, and a model citizen. He's the Brett to my Brent. I have taken pride in being a crazy influence on his 3 sons and look forward to taking that as far as I can.
Jimmy Rutkowski
Jimmy Rutkowski - Groomsman (Brother of the Groom)
James Michael. What can I say. He's the man I've always strived to be. A true lover of all people and animals. So thankful to have gotten such an amazing person as my only brother. He's a terrific father, son, lover to Basia, and literally the best brother I could have ever asked for.
Jessica Rutkowski
Jessica Rutkowski - Groomswoman (Sister of the Groom)
Jessica. The ambidextrous groomswoman. She is the most beautiful person on the inside and outside that I know. When we were kids I used to laugh with her that being ambidextrous was amazing for her athletically. Little did I know, that it would ultimately define her as the best sister and mother. Like Dan, I also look forward to showing my niece Adrianna how to be the biggest Hellraiser going.
Ryan Mao
Ryan Mao - Officiant (Brother of the Bride)
My mom calls my brother the “son of God.” Normally, I’d roll my eyes at such a title, but in his case… she’s right. Born on a holy day, his name in Khmer means “Sunday.” Now, imagine being the only boy in a family of four sisters. He had no choice but to learn how to fend for himself—and somehow, he survived. Ryan is a saintly son, a loving husband, a role-model father, a patient brother, and a devout Christian. When Jason asked my dad for my hand in marriage, Ryan was the one who helped coordinate the surprise. I’ll always be grateful that he was part of that special moment. So, when it came time to decide who would officiate our wedding, Ryan was the very first person on our list. He knows both of us so well, and I honestly wouldn’t want anyone else to marry us. It’s not just that we would be honored—it’s that it feels meant to be.
Chan Mao
Chan Mao - Mother of the Bride
One of first memories of mom was on the first day of school. She held my hand and walked me to the school bus. Back in the days, we had to walk about a mile to the bus stop. She was always concerned about my safety. Forty years later, her hand, now softened with age, will hold mine again as I walk down the aisle. It's not just a handoff, it's a symbol of her unwavering presence, a right of passage marking the start of a new chapter. Through scraped knees and broken hearts, college rejections and career triumphs, she's been my constant north star, my rock. Being the baby of the family came with its perks; I was always her favorite. Her love and support were the gentle wind beneath my wings. I'm bursting with happiness to finally tie the knot with Jason, a man Mom adores almost as much as she adores me. It's become a running joke - she calls him just to chat, often asking to speak to him before even saying hello to me. Knowing my parents won't have to worry about me anymore, knowing they approve of the life I've chosen, is a gift beyond measure. Her smile on my wedding day will be the most radiant of all. As I walk down that aisle, I'll be thinking of all the times she held my hand, all the times she picked me up when I fell. And as I step into this new chapter, I know her love will continue to guide me, even when she's not physically by my side. That thought makes my heart swell with love, and just a touch of sadness that this one chapter in our lives is coming to an end. But I know that our love story continues, and that it will be written by many more moments shared with mom.
Nou Mao
Nou Mao - Father of the Bride
My precious daddy is the most loving and amazing father. Growing up, he instilled in me the value of hard work, not just through his words but through the way he lived his life. Every dollar he earned was through sheer effort, and he used it to provide for our family, no matter how little we had. Even when times were hard, he never held back his love. I am the baby of the family—and I’ll admit, I used that to my advantage. I think he caught on, but he still laughs about it to this day. One day, as a curious little girl, I went through his wallet and found a small, worn photo of me tucked inside. That’s when I knew—I was the twinkle in his eyes. (Shhh… don’t tell my sister Sophorn that I’m his favorite.) Sometimes I wonder if he still carries that photo with him. No matter how many years have passed, I’ll always be his little girl.
James Rutkowski
James Rutkowski - Father of the Groom
My father has been my closest person and has been my rock since day 1. First day of having full custody of me when i was 2 years old, he went to Child World and bought me a swing set, picked up a pizza for us on the way home, and then we fell asleep on the couch... thats when i pee'd my pants and unfortunately all over him. He didnt lose his cool and just took care of me like he has everyday since. Nearly losing him to cancer in 2024, having him here to celebrate this day means more to our family than words can say. We’re grateful for his strength, his humor, and for always putting us kids first. Phenomenal human and even better father.❤️
June Rutkowski
June Rutkowski - Grandmother of the Groom
My grandmother has been there and helped raise me since before I was even out of the womb. The Dr. was late, and as he got off the elevator she grabbed and told him... GET IN THERE and DELIVER MY GRANDSON. That was the 2nd coolest thing she has ever done for me, and only 2nd to the thousands of pieces of French toast and grilled cheese sandwiches. This is Sathia first and only living grandparent, and I have to give Sathia all the credit... The wedding is in Buffalo because Sathia wanted it that way with only having my grandmother in mind. My grandmother is literally the glue that keeps our family whole. We are so lucky she is here to celebrate with us!❤️