Shae & Travis
October 25, 2024 • Elkhorn, NE
Shae & Travis
October 25, 2024 • Elkhorn, NE
Q + A
Can I bring my kids to the wedding
We have gone back and forth on this topic a lot - and we believe that as parents you should make that decision for yourselves and your family.
This is your disclaimer: There will be drag performers, burlesque performers, leather enthusiasts, swearing, alcohol, and minimal kid friendly music or side activities (i.e. coloring, bounce houses, etc.). We will not censor ourselves, and expect the same of our guests.
What do I wear
This is a big costume party- we invite all guests to come in costume! The wedding is taking place right before Halloween and Day of the Dead, and we’re throwing some masquerade elements into it as well. But, if costumes are not your thing- we understand. Come looking nice instead.
When and how do I RSVP?
Our RSVPs will be sent in spring 2024- we ask that you have the RSVP returned either by mail or on the knot if you don’t wish to mail it, before September 15,2024 so we can have an accurate headcount for food- if we don’t have your RSVP by September 15, 2024 we cannot guarantee you food.
Kids Meals?
While this is not McDonald's, the venue does offer special pricing for the little ones. Ages 3-5 are 50% off and the litter ones are free. We are happy to provide the soft drink package for the kids, but we would appreciate if you could help us with the meal pricing.
Drinks
The important thing! Travis and Shae are providing a soft drink package from the catering/bartending service, any other drinks will be pay as you order (a.k.a. cash bar)
DJ and song requests?
Shae's spotify will be the DJ of the night- we would appreciate a song request at the time of your RSVP and we will try to get it on the list. If you have requests at the reception, it will be in place of the dollar dance, with Taylor Swift being the exception as she is a $10 donation to the honeymoon. For requests the night of, you will be directed to a specific person.
But what if I have a question that is not on this web page????
Fear not, If you have a question a pertaining to this event, you can Email us at shaevis8492@gmail.com
We will be having professional photographers at the wedding (I know we’re as shocked as all of you since Shae doesn’t picture). Please be respectful of their time and expertise- if they ask you to move or turn off your flash please do.
However if you would like to take photos on your own devices this is fine, just be mindful of the other guests. We do have a few hashtags that you can use for social media-
#ShaeCaughtATravis
#KainAndSteiffBigDay
#BecomingTheSteiffs
How can I donate to the honeymoon fund?
We have made several options available:
Through our website and gift registry
Through PayPal either with this link
https://www.paypal.com/pools/c/95pcygf1ME (link is active until July 15) or sending directly to shaesteiff@gmail.com
Or through Venmo @Shae-Kain92 (last four digits 6435)