Pre-Wedding Dinner

Wedding Day

Ceremony

Reception

Spring

A Note from the Groom and Bride

You all are very special to us; we look forward to celebrating with you! Please see our 'Q+A' and 'Wedding Theme and Attire' tab for any questions or reach out to us if your question is not answered there.

Our Wedding

Our Story

Howe Farms

11895 Dolly Pond Rd, Birchwood, TN, 37308﻿

Venue

Secret Garden

Dear Guests, We are delighted to share that our wedding ceremony will be held in the heart of a stunning outdoor setting—our very own secret garden! As you arrive, you'll find yourself surrounded by the natural beauty of the great outdoors, where blooming flowers, lush greenery, and the gentle sounds of nature will serve as the backdrop for our vows. The ceremony will take place in a picturesque garden setting, offering a serene and romantic atmosphere that only nature can provide. When dressing, think spring! Please dress comfortably and in accordance with the weather, as the ceremony will be held under the open sky. We recommend wearing suitable footwear for walking on grass or uneven terrain and bringing a light jacket or shawl in case the temperature drops.We are excited to share this magical outdoor experience with you and are confident it will add a unique and memorable touch to our special day. Warmest wishes, Shawn and Cederia (soon to be) Boykin

Ladies

Think mid- floor length dresses in spring muted pastels. Opt for luminous silks, floaty chiffons, whimsical dresses. You can also reach for joyful prints, romantic ruffles, and shimmering details for a more elevated statement presentation. The Ceremony will be in the "garden" please make sure you steer clear from stiletto heels, opt for a thick or block heel/wedge instead, or pick up some heel stoppers.

Gentlemen

Come dressed in your most dapper suit and tie. Opt for a light or medium-toned suit to complement the natural beauty of our garden. Shades such as soft grey, peach, periwinkle, light blue, or beige work wonderfully. Well-fitted blazers with dress pants can also be a great choice. Do not shy away from accessorizing with pops of floral and plaid in your ties, pocket squares, and socks. We also encourage 'no tie looks' with your suit jackets and slacks. Linen and cotton blend attire will be your best friend during this ceremony.

What to Embrace and What to Avoid

When selecting your accessories and final touches for our secret garden wedding, we want you to strike the perfect balance between elegance and practicality. Here’s a guide to help you enhance your outfit while ensuring you’re comfortable and well-suited for our enchanting outdoor setting: What to Embrace: Classic Accessories: A timeless watch, understated cufflinks, classic hat styles, and a coordinating pocket square can elevate your look without overshadowing the natural beauty of the garden.Lightweight Fabrics: Opt for breathable, light fabrics to stay comfortable throughout the day. Materials like linen or lightweight wool are ideal for the outdoor setting.Subtle Patterns: If you choose to incorporate patterns, keep them subtle and sophisticated. A delicate pattern on your tie or shirt can add a refined touch without being overwhelming. Kindly Avoid: Heavy Fabrics: Steer clear of heavy or bulky fabrics that might not be suitable for an outdoor event, especially if the weather is warm or variable.Bright, Flashy Accessories: To keep with the garden’s serene atmosphere, opt for accessories that are elegant but not overly flashy or distracting.Dark Colors: Dark, heavy colors can feel out of place in the vibrant, natural surroundings of a garden. Avoid deep shades like navy, black, or dark brown, as they might contrast too starkly with the light and airy atmosphere of the setting.

Shawn & Cederia

Shawn & Cederia

Q + A

Where should we stay?

Can we bring our children?

Is there a theme?

Do we have to match the theme?

How do we match 'Secret Garden' Theme

What are the wedding colors?

Can I wear a hat?