We kindly ask that guests arrive in cocktail attire — semi-formal. Think maxi length dresses, midi gowns, suits or sleek separates. Our wedding palette is moody and romantic, so we ask that you avoid bright, vibrant colors (neons, hot pinks, oranges, etc.). Instead feel free to lean into muted tones, jewel shades, earthy neutrals, deep blacks and metallics. Also, please refrain from wearing colors reserved for the bride — whites, ivory, cream.

The ceremony will be held in a completely outdoor space (shaded by trees). The reception will be held in a semi-outdoor space. Please keep in mind that our venue is by the water in November, so we recommend a jacket or shawl for the cooler evening temps.

Due to limited capacity, we are only able to accommodate those formally invited. If you received a plus one it will be addressed when you RSVP.

Before and after the ceremony? Absolutely! During the ceremony? We kindly ask that you keep phones and cameras put away. We’ve hired a phenomenal photographer to capture everything — and we’d love for you to be fully present in the moment with us. Thank you for helping us keep our ceremony unplugged, we promise the photos will be worth the wait!

Although we love your little ones, children attending the wedding are limited to family due to capacity.

Yes! If you’d like to join in, please bring cash to pin and share some love on the dance floor.

The Bali Hai has plenty of free parking in their lot, right outside of the venue!

Yes! We’ll have a hosted bar to kick things off. Drink responsibly y’all!

If you're not able to make it, you'll definitely be missed! No worries though, just please make sure to RSVP NO for yourself as well as anyone named in your household if applicable.