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March 20th, 2023: The day a simple swipe on Tinder turned into a love story we’ll cherish forever. Who could have guessed that one right swipe would lead to so much more than just a conversation—it would lead to a lifetime of love, laughter, and the beginning of something extraordinary.Our first date was supposed to be a fun night of bowling, but what we found when we arrived was more suited for a crime scene than a date. Unfazed by the spooky ambiance, Hailey quickly improvised, whisking Shelby away to Edwardsville, Illinois. We explored Edison's Arcade, got lost in the aisles of Barnes &amp; Noble, and shared laughs while watching the adorable animals at a local pet store. That night, a bond was formed that felt unbreakable. There was so much in common between the two of us it was undeniable that there was much more at work than just a simple coincidence. Since then, we’ve been practically inseparable, exploring the world together one adventure at a time.From trips to the zoo and professional bull riding to spontaneous outings at the City Museum and beyond, every moment spent together has been an unforgettable adventure. Our connection only deepened with each new experience, and we both knew we were building something truly special.Then, on April 26th, 2024, Hailey orchestrated the most beautiful surprise—a secret photoshoot that turned into a life-changing moment. Surrounded by love and laughter, Hailey asked Shelby the most important question of all: “Will you spend the rest of your life with me?” With tears in our eyes and hearts full of joy, Shelby said yes.And now, here we are—excited to celebrate the next chapter of our story. We can’t wait to share this moment with you, our friends and family, and to continue building a life together filled with love, adventure, and countless more memories.

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"Hey everyone! My name is Alexus and I am, biologically, Shelby's cousin, but, spiritually, I would say we're more like sisters! I'm incredibly honored to be picked as her Maid of Honor. Thought it is my very very first time being in a wedding party, I am sooooo excited to be apart of their special day! We have always dreamed of our wedding day growing up and it's absolutely wild to say that dreams are coming true so soon! I cannot wait for us to all celebrate their love together!" 

Alexus Ault

"Hi I'm Kathryn, Hailey's Maid of Honor. I've known Hailey for as long as I can remember and I am so honored and excited to be part of Hailey and Shelby's beautiful future."

Kathryn Tepen 

Hey! I'm Sheiann, a bridesmaid. Let's just say the way I met Shelby was a blessing for us both, she's my sister from another mister and missus. I am honored to be part of the big day and so happy to have them both apart of our little family! I can't wait to celebrate the love and watch it grow every day! 

Sheiann Rhodes 

Hi! Im Hailey - Shelby's sister, and proud bridesmaid. Watching her marry the love of her life is such a special moment, and i'm truly honored to be apart of it. When i'm not helping with wedding stuff, you can usually find me hanging out with my dogs or baking! So excited to celebrate this day with everyone! 

Hailey Depoister

"Hey Guys! My name is Chloe. I am Hailey's sister. I am very excited for Hailey and Shelby's new adventure!" 

Chloe Chastain 

“Hey! I’m Kayla, a bridesmaid and Hailey’s sister. I am so excited to watch the love grow between hailey and shelby”

Kayla Seiver 

Hey, hey, hey! I'm Sylvia and I'm a proud and excited bridesmaid. I've known Shelby sine our freshman year of college. She has been such an integral part of your life thus far and being able to watch her marry the love of her life is something I cherish. I'm beyond honored to stand by her and celebrate her and Hailey's love! 

Sylvia Przybylowski

"Hi everyone! I'm Lauren, one of Shelby's bridesmaids. I met Shelby when we were two little freshmen at college orientation camp, and we've been great friends ever since. I'm so happy she found Hailey and it's been wonderful seeing their love grow. I'm so honored and can't wait to celebrate this new chapter with them!" 

Lauren George

"Hi! I'm honored to be part of this big day for these two incredible ladies. Their love is top tier and I'm lucky to cheer them on."

Uriel Gomez

Hi! I'm Katie, one of Hailey's bridesmaids. We have known each other for almost a year. We met working at a veterinary clinic and became best friends! I am blessed to be part of her special day! I cannot wait to see what the future holds for Shelby and Hailey!

Katie

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We want our guests to feel comfortable while still looking stylish and wedding-ready.Dressy casual attire is requested—think dresses, skirts, dressy tops, or nice jeans.Our ceremony will take place outdoors on grass, followed by an indoor reception, and it will be mid-summer in July, so please dress with the weather in mind.Footwear note: The ceremony will be held on grass, so block heels, wedges, flats, or dressy sandals are recommended over stilettos.Kindly note:No white, ivory, or creamNo shortsThank you for celebrating with us—we can’t wait to see you!

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