Shelby & Kai

August 9, 2024 • San Diego, CA

Shelby & Kai

August 9, 2024 • San Diego, CA

FAQs

What should I wear as a guest?

We would love for our guests to wear semi-formal to formal attire in shades of blue. Be mindful that our ceremony will be on grass, so choose green tones with that in consideration. If the color is similar to sea glass, it's welcome as well!

What should I wear as part of the bridal party?

For our ladies, a floor-length dress is preferred in a shade of light tan with hints of grey. For our gentlemen, a suit in a shade of light tan with hints of grey. For both, please feel free to accessorize with colors that resemble sea glass!

What attire should I avoid?

With respect to the bridal party, please avoid all whites, creams, tans, brown, grey, and beige. Be mindful that the ceremony will be outdoors while the cocktail and reception will be indoors, so plan your outfit accordingly.

What time should I arrive?

Guests should arrive at 2:30 PM for the ceremony and at 5:00 PM for the reception. This way everyone has enough time to find seating before the events begin.

Am I allowed to bring a + 1 and or my child(ren)?

As much as we love our extended friends and family, we'd prefer to keep our day intimate. With that being said, only those included on the RSVP list are welcome to the wedding.

Will there be an open bar?

At our cocktail and reception event, there will be an open bar until it is empty. You are welcome to bring a flask with your preferred beverage choice, but we are asking that all guests refrain from consuming alcohol during the ceremony.

Can I request a song?

YES! If there is a song you would like to hear, please include that song(s) in the comment section when you RSVP. If you have already sent your RSVP, feel free to text us your request!

Can I get you something not from your registry?

Of course! We thought that having a registry might help give guests options, but I'm sure we'll love any gift we recieve!

Can I bring your gift to the ceremony and or reception?

Of course, we will have a table designated for any gifts brought with guests at the reception location. At that same table, there will be an opportunity for guests to leave us a letter. Feel free to bring a card and or write a letter before or at the wedding!

Am I invited to the rehersal?

The only guests needed for the rehearsal include the bride's parents and the bridal party. We do not plan on hosting a rehearsal dinner event.

Transportation, travel, and hotels?

For any questions related to the topics listed above, know that we are not able to assist everyone with their needs. Of course, if anything related may prevent you from attending let us know as soon as possible. We want everyone, including ourselves, to enjoy the wedding!

Still feeling unsure?

Feel free to reach out to us with any questions you may have! We'd rather you reach out to get clarity than to make the choice independently. Shelby (661)471-0933 / Kai (661)236-5813.