It's a Ploucha Palooza!

Saint Vincent de Paul Catholic Church

Ceremony

What do I do with this awkward 1.5 hours?

Morgan Manufacturing

Reception

Fall

Our Wedding

It all started on a trip to Rome with two people who love to say “yes.”

Well, Shelby says it started in Rome because that sounds more romantic. Trevor will let you know it technically “started” with a Facebook DM. Shelby was initially supposed to study in Italy during spring semester of her junior year, but was offered a last-minute opportunity to intern at NBC’s 30 Rock in NYC (you didn’t think we would get through this without mentioning that, did you?) and decided to study abroad that summer instead. Little did she know that “yes” to changing plans would lead to meeting her future husband. Since she wasn’t on campus that spring, Shelby didn’t get to meet any of the fellow Spartans she would study abroad with, but she did receive a list of names from her professor in case she wanted to coordinate flights with other students. Naturally, she messaged a boy with one of the cutest profile pictures to ask if he wanted to book a flight together. Naturally, he said “yes.” Two months later, they locked eyes across the crowds at the DTW airport. Trevor and his friend, Connor, walked up to Shelby and, instantly, they the two could not stop talking (a theme from the start). While walking onto the plane Connor whispered, “Shelby’s eating up that enthusiasm”…and he was right. They flirted non-stop for the first three weeks while exploring Italy and shared their first kiss in a Trastevere back alley after Trevor gave one of his infamous “pep talks” before a night out. Shoutout to “Euro shot night” at G-Bar for the liquid courage. When Shelby found out it was Trevor who anonymously donated new foosball and ping pong tables to the refugee center they volunteered at in Italy, she knew she was really falling for him. Dinner dates alongside the Tiber River, holding hands at the Italian opera, kisses in front of the Trevi Fountain, dancing the night away in Florence and long talks on the steps of Shelby’s old apartment filled the rest of the trip. It was a Lizzie-McGuire-What-Dreams-Are-Made-Of summer.

The first thing Trevor told his parents when he got back to the U.S. was “I found this amazing girl and I’m going to date her.” He asked Shelby to be his girlfriend by listing the "top then things she was 'elite' at", the tenth being his girlfriend...“that is if she wanted to be?” It was the second best “yes” she ever said. From 21st birthday parties, formals and tailgates, to trips with each other’s families and Friendsgivings before they could cook...to Rama days, Crunchy’s karaoke nights and always stopping for a game at Pinball Pete’s and pizza on the way home...to taking very long walks around the MOST BEAUTIFUL CAMPUS IN THE WORLD, they fell deeply in love throughout their senior year at Michigan State.&nbsp;

They both received job offers they couldn’t refuse, and after graduation Shelby moved to Chicago while Trevor moved to Newport Beach. There were many tears as goodbye gifts were exchanged, with Trevor making Shelby a montage of their first year together to their song “Something Just Like This” and Shelby giving him a series of letters a la “open when you’re excited,” “open when you miss me” and “open if you need reassurance about us.” Despite the 2021 miles between them, they grew up and grew closer together during the 20 months they were long distance. They met up in California, Chicago, NYC, Vegas, Washington, Michigan and anywhere they could find flights on their entry level job budgets.&nbsp;

﻿While it was -55 degrees in January 2019, their world felt much warmer because Trevor moved to Chicago. Extravagant homemade Valentine’s Day dinner traditions began, kitchen dance parties and movie nights ensued, and the summer was filled with concerts, beach volleyball and even a Backstreet Boys birthday serenade. With the city truly feeling like home for them both, they moved in together in 2020…amidst two national crises which caused them to live on a box of mac n’ cheese for three days (but that’s a story for another time).

In 2021, without 2021 miles between them anymore, Trevor pulled out one of the letters Shelby had written four years earlier as he got down on one knee at a beautiful winery during what was disguised as a birthday trip to Sonoma. He ripped the envelope titled “open when you need reassurance about us,” letting Shelby know he knew he would never need reassurance about the fact that they were meant for one another. Trevor said he was never more certain about anything in his entire life, and asked Shelby to marry him. It was the definite best “yes” she ever said.

Shelby and Trevor are thrilled to begin this next chapter of their love story, and so grateful to all their friends and family who are coming to their city to help celebrate their “yes” to forever.

Our Story

Photos

Taylor Roland

Tyler Eisemann

Melissa Ploucha

Michael Actis

Mackenzie Betts

Jamie Carlstedt

Brittany Buchanan 

Jordan Paulus

Allie Field

Aaron Schaap 

Jonna Grady

Connor Simpkins

Lauren Mulligan-Kirk

Jackson Vidaurri

Wedding Party

Q + A

Where to Stay

We have a limited number of rooms available at two hotels (Homewood Suites &amp; Crowne Plaza). This is going to be a big wedding so be sure to book sooner than later. Be sure to use the link on this website for the special rate! Rooms must be booked more than 45 days in advance to secure group rates. If we run out of rooms (which we probably will) feel free to get creative with other options such as The Emily Hotel or AirBNB.

Selling points for this hotel: Free Hot Breakfast, Cheapest Option and a self-service tap bar featuring local beers in the lobby. Located just over the highway in West Loop, this hotel is 0.9 Miles from the Wedding Venue (18 min Walk). Parking is not included but can be purchased for $58/night. Only a 5 min walk (0.8 miles) from Union Station for those coming in via Train. If the button below isn't working (which for some reason keeps breaking), copy and paste this URL into your browser: https://www.hilton.com/en/attend-my-event/chiwxhx-rpw-af00ed43-22d9-4b45-b234-0502da826d9a/

Homewood Suites by Hilton Chicago Downtown West Loop

Selling points for this hotel: All rooms have a balcony, located in the Heart of GreekTown, has a Fitness Center. Located in the heart of West Loops, this hotel is 0.9 Miles from the Wedding Venue (18 min Walk). Parking is not included but can be purchased for $54/night. Only a 10 min walk (0.4 miles) from Union Station for those coming in via Train.

Crowne Plaza Chicago West Loop, an IHG Hotel

Looking to stay right next store to the wedding venue and treat yourself for a big weekend on the town? The Emily is an upscale hotel with one of the best locations in the City. Perfect for those that want to stumble back to their room at night, are craving a big weekend or want to be even closer to the best West Loop has to offer.

The Emily Hotel

How to get here

Chicago has two major airports: O'Hare (ORD) &amp; Midway (MDW). O'Hare is the bigger &amp; cheaper airport, while Midway is the smaller one that causes less headaches. ORD Main Airlines: United &amp; AmericanMDW Main Airlines: Southwest Both airports can get you into the city in under 40 mins (depending on traffic) via Taxi, Uber or CTA. For the adventurous type the CTA (Chicago's public transit system) has a train that will drop you off downtown for $5 per person.

Planes

For those who are looking to avoid parking or the hassle of having a car in Chicago, taking the train might be just for you. Union Station is conveniently located ~10 mins walking to each of the hotels with reserved blocks. Have a cocktail or two on the way in while the conductor drives.

Trains

Parking in Chicago is never fun. That will probably everyone's number one complaint at the wedding :) Both hotels have paid parking on site, but those looking for a cheaper option should check out SpotHero. Think of it like AirBNB for parking spaces. Parking spaces aren't displayed that far out, so check back in 30-60 days before the wedding for the best availability and rates.

Automobiles

Travel

We’re so excited for our family and friends to experience the city we call home. Check out some of our favorite spots to find out why “Summertime Chi” is worth the hype!

Weekend long street festival right near the wedding reception/hotels! $10 donation entrance, tastes of the best food from all over the city, drinks &amp; live music! IMPORTANT: If you want to go to any of the restaurants on Randolph just say that at the door &amp; they should let you in without cost - note the restaurants may be a bit crowded on this street.

Taste Of Randolph

Hands down one of the best ways to see the most iconic buildings in Chicago while soaking up some sun on a boat! You'll leave the 60-minute tour with great historical fun facts to use in case you run out of small talk topics with a stranger at the wedding. Book your ticket online in advance!

Architecture Riverboat Tour: Wendella Tours & Cruises 

World-class sketch and improv comedy shows (with alumni like Tina Fey, Chris Farley, Steve Carrell and Bill Murray, you know they're good). Book tickets for Friday night or Sunday online in advance - highly recommend Best of Second City. (ages 13+)

The Second City Training Center

Multi-story mini golf and cocktails within walking distance of your hotel...need we say more? Book your tee time online in advance (21+)

Puttery

Nothing says summer like a ball game at Wrigley Field! The Cubs schedule is still TBC so check back to see if they're in town on Friday or Sunday. Before or after the game, swing by Sluggers for some dueling pianos, batting cages and (slightly) cheaper beer than you can get in the stadium.

Catch a Cubs Game at Wrigley Field

Walk through the zoo (free), check out some animals end up right next to the beaches of Lake Michigan. On Saturday morning, the Green City Farmers Market is right next door - Chicago's biggest summertime market.

Lincoln Park Zoo and Farmers Market (FREE)

This five story Starbucks is one of the largest in the world, featuring a coffee bar, cocktail bar, bakery and roastery. It's free to walk through and located on Chicago's famous mag mile next to Shelby's old office in the John Hancock building - perfect fuel in case you're doing some shopping!

Starbucks Reserve Roastery

If you're looking to get a little sweat in (before the dance floor, of course), kayaking the river is a great way to see the city! Book online in advance.

Urban Kayaks on the Chicago River

Multi story fun house/bar with bowling, shuffleboard, corn hole, giant Jenga, you name it! No reservations required. 13+. For any old-school game enthusiasts, check out Emporium barcade across the street.

Punch Bowl Social Chicago

You're staying in our neighborhood (West Loop) which is known for having some of the best food in the world - the main street (Randolph) is even called "Restaurant Row." The options can be overwhelming and expensive, so we're sharing some of our absolute favorite spots within walking distance of the hotel.&nbsp;

Parlor Pizzeria - best vibes for a sit down meal with an amazing rooftop, great thin crust pizza Nancy's - for those deep-dish lovers Bonci - for a quick Roman style slice of unique flavor options cut by scissors

Pizza (a Chicago staple)

La Josie - slightly more upscale tacos with a great vibe Velvet Taco - the tastiest, quickest and most affordable tacos in Chicago Bodega - delicious quick tacos, secret bar in the back with darts

Tacos

Best BBQ in Chicago hidden in an alley straight off a movie set. Grab a beer, snag a spot at a picnic table and enjoy!

Green Street Smoked Meats

Au Cheval - AKA the "best burger I've ever had" according to everyone who has tried it. You might have to put your name in and grab a drink while you wait for a table, but it's worth it! Duck Duck Goat - the greatest Chinese food you'll ever have. Consider making a reservation. Bar Siena - a favorite dinner spot for the classics, their meatballs are 10/10. Consider making a reservation. Ramen San - whiskey &amp; Asian noodles...that's all you need to know. Gus' World Famous Fried Chicken - grab your fresh fried chicken, a 40 in a paper bag (seriously) and enjoy the sunshine from your picnic table outside. Black Barrel Tavern - great bar food &amp; cocktails!

American

Can't decide where to eat? There's a little something for everyone in this food court with menus from some of the best restaurants in Chicago.

Time Out Market Chicago (Food Court)

Located in Shelby's old office at McDonald's Global Headquarters! Check out different McD's menu items from around the world.

McDonald’s Global Menu Restaurant

Artopolis Bakery - hands down one of our favorite no frills breakfast/lunch spots in Chicago...where we've done a LOT of wedding planning. Try the Artopita (it's like a flakier, more delicious hot pocket...you'll see what we mean). Coffee - there are Starbucks, Dunkins and La Colombe shops located on Randolph, but if you're looking to treat yourself try Sawada, Sugargoat or Good Ambler's coffee. Jeni's Ice Cream - if Trevor wants you to try one thing, this is it. Best ice cream in the world. The waffle cone is a must. LeVain Bakery - gooey, warm, wonderfully oversized cookies. One of the few locations in the country and definitely worth the hype.

Breakfast, Coffee & Desserts

Cabra - if you're looking for an upscale cocktail spot with incredible city views this is your spot. Their "speakeasy" Lazy Bird downstairs is also amazing. Richard's - if you're looking for the opposite of upscale and want to travel back in time. Cash only, cigarette smoking is borderline encouraged and the juke box is backed up about 70 years. It's the best. Duggan's - if you're looking for something in between, this local dive is one of our favorites. Good beer, good people and good popcorn served in paper bowls. Texas Taco Bar - country music and an incredible rooftop...Nashville-esque if you will. Federales - if you want to throw a tequila shot at a bell and get a little rowdy. Bandit or Blind Barber - if you want to DANCE. Kaiser Tiger - beer garden, a little walk away from the crowds!

Shelby & Trevor