Shelby + Derek
October 4, 2025 • Bargersville, IN
145 Days To Go!
Shelby + Derek
October 4, 2025 • Bargersville, IN
145 Days To Go!
Do I have to RSVP?
Yes. An RSVP is absolutely REQUIRED for every invited guest. It is essential in planning for the ceremony seating and reception meals.
How do I RSVP OR DECLINE TO ATTEND?
You may RSVP directly through the website's "RSVP" page. Please include the name of the person(s) in attendance or nonattendance.
What if I don't RSVP, may I still come to the ceremony and/or reception?
No, an RSVP is required. Due to space and planning limitations, for both the ceremony and reception, accommodations will not be made for those that do not RSVP.
May I bring someone that is not included on the invitation?
No. Your invitation is addressed to those who are invited. Please adhere to the invitation as it is addressed.
What is the dress code?
We would love to see our family and friends get dressed up with us! We are requesting a cocktail/semi-formal dress code for our wedding.
Can I wear white, ivory, or cream?
No, let the bride have her day.
Where is the ceremony?
The ceremony is located outside in a grassy area, weather permitting. Please keep this in mind for shoe choices.
Can I take photos during the ceremony?
We ask that you kindly put your phones away and on silent for an unplugged ceremony. We have an amazing photographer/ videographer and will absolutely share all those photos with you!
Will there be an open bar?
Yes, beer and wine on us will be served! Please plan accordingly.
Is there cost for parking/where can I park ?
Parking is available in the venue's parking lot at no cost.
Do I/We have to stay at the hotel recommended ?
No, if you wish to stay some place else please feel free to do so.