Once uponnnnnn a time….. the end. Lol. Jk jk. Letme see if I can remember this like it was yesterday but clear as day….

This was during a time when I was in my darkest moments and I truly was doing all that I can to heal myself, find my happiness, and try to love myself again.

I remember it was a night when I was working very hard at work and suddenly I receive a text from one of my girlfriend. She had told me that she told her brother about my heartbreak and then he suddenly wanted to talk to me. He wanted to be friends. I was shooketh as to why he wanted to talk to me. I remember telling her to tell him “You like big girls or nahhh!!” And for him to go subscribe to my YouTube channel. (I was so motivated with my channel at that time). Lord knows I was so surprise and almost fell off my chair seeing her message. I hesitated for a bit cause I was still going through the motion and it was leading up to the week of my mini vacations I had planned. However, I gave in and said sure why not.

It took him about a day till he muster up the courage to finally message me. He didn’t hit me with that “Good morning” but that “Thanks for accepting”, I assume it was his friend request, lol. I remember as we continue to talk, I only gave him 48 hours until he’ll stop talking to me. I weren’t really looking for anything nor did his convo really sounded like it was getting anywhere after a day. However, after 48 hours, he hit me with that “WYD” and girrrlllllll. Our conversation continued! As conversations continue I remember I continuously reminded him that “I was Ugly asf! But I got a bomb ass personality and Funny Asf!” And what happens, you guess it! HE FELL IN LOVE WITH ME!!! I mean, what can I say? Lol.

At the time I never wanted him to fall for me so everyday I would also remind him “Whatever you do, DO NOT fall in love with me!” And I tried all that I can to push him away. I’ve said super mean things to him, even stop having conversation. But the harder I pushed him away and the harder I tell him to not fall in love with me, it seems the harder he fell for me. I truly had convinced myself that I was ment to be alone and never want to fall in love again cause it hurts falling in love and LOVE isn’t for me! But every wall I built and every stainless steel I had sealed heart with, he happen to break each and everyone of them and mend every broken piece that was in me. He never gave up and he never stop trying! He was soo patient with me. If you ask him he will tell you cause he’s said it to me in the beginning “Don’t worry I am JB Welder certified , I will weld you back together!”.

Then the day came and he finally visited me. I remember, I was nervously feeling butterflies meeting him for the first time but I tried to play it off. I knocked on his hotel room and in front of me was this tall guy and in my head I was like “Wow Mmkayy, he kinda TALL ASF! And cute thiab mas!” Lol.

Fast forward FEB 2021, after asking me multiple times I mean MULTIPLE TIMES to be his girlfriend, I finally gave in! I made every excuse in the book to avoid the question, until one day I went to Tulsa to celebrate his birthday, I remember he had asked me to be his girlfriend again but I told him no, maybe when the Sunsets and the sun shines right through, if he remembers to ask I will give him an answer. Later that day, we went to go get some Boba Tea and as we were trying to drive off he goes “Omg, baby!” in a serious, stern, concerning voice! He looped around to parked the car, staring right where the sun was setting and asked me to be his girlfriend! In that moment I didn’t know how to answer him because I was still hesitant and scared. I remember in that very moment, I had prayed to God to give me a sign if he was the one for me and if I should open my heart! As I said Amen, the sun start to shine through the clouds as it set. And it was then I told his yes as God has graciously shown me his light and the sign I needed. This was the first time I’ve ever felt a man who has loved me first and try his best to do all that he can! Where my happiness came first and where I truly mattered!

Fast fast forward Jan 2024: As our love continue to grow and we face so many challenges together. This man, who is terrible with surprises, tries all that he can to muster a master plan to propose! Leading to the day of his visitation, I knew he was wayy SUS and up to no good. He suddenly wanted to take me to do my nails, he suddenly wanna go talk a walk in the park and he wanted to take pictures. I also saw his sisters Snapchat of a familiar ish place they were at. Lol. However, I remember scrambling and was mad cause he didn’t tell me in advance, I had no clothes to wear and I was tangry! We finally made our way to this place. He pretends to put a mic on me and said it was part of our walk cause he was interviewing me. So I thought okay he’s SUS but it’s prob from those cute TikTok videos he’s seen. As we started to walk closer and close to the proposal place, I didn’t have my glasses so I couldn’t see, but I started to see familiar body shapes of the people I know. And in that moment I knew what he was doing. It was so heart warming to see all my love ones there witnessing this very moment that it became an addition to my tears……

Fast fast fast forward and moral of the story; he made all the first moves, he fell in love with me first (cause I told him I got a bomb ass personality and I’m FUNNY ASF) and here we are… lolol. It may sound like I’ve told this story so many times, but this is truly the person and the love I have received from this amazing human being who I can not wait to spend this rest of my life with. This is my version of the story.

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