The Astor

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Eastern Metropolitan Club

Gaye Holud (Haldi)

Biye (Wedding Day)

Bou Bhaat (Reception Dinner)

Our Wedding

Shreyoshi and Subhro met on a warm August afternoon - as Subhro stood outside Fernhill Garden Apartments with Cheeku (specimen 1 below). The Senguptas (led by Cheeku) were looking to get their first house - and Shreyoshi, led by her friend Nimesh, was looking to get a cab. Given her love for dogs is legendary (just kidding), she ran 20 metres away as soon as she saw Cheeku (it could have been because of Subhro as well - but we will blame it on the dog for now). It is at this moment that the gods sensed serendipity and magic happened - Subhro and Shreyoshi saw each other. And Shreyoshi ran away... Subhro screamed and asked Shreyoshi whether she lived in Fernhill and what she thought about it ?? By this time Shreyoshi had already made a 100 mt sprint, but thankfully had given her number to Banalata (specimen 2, the evil twin of Subhro, now in UK) Over time they spoke (Subhro slyly inquiring where Mr. Das and the kids were - they were clearly not in the scene). They fell in love - over mutton biriyani from Oh! Calcutta and a shared love for spending money - and they found their differences - she liked Shahrukh Khan, he liked Wes Anderson, She liked to go out - he liked to bury himself in the house and sleep at 9 PM. They talked, debated, fought every Friday (Cheeku mediated of-course) and in the end they decided that like everything in life, they will "work on it"... In July 2023 Subhro and Shreyoshi embarked on a 6 month exercise. Every week Shreyoshi would come 2 mts closer to the door of the Sengupta household. Subhro on the other hand will have to stay awake past 10. Slowly things began to progress - Shreyoshi was inside the house; Subhro saw his first Shahrukh Khan movie in ages. Shreyoshi sat on the couch; Subhro stayed awake post 11... 12 weeks later, Cheeku decided that this was enough dedication shown on part of both and okayed the marriage. And since then Subhro, Shreyoshi and Cheeku have lived happily ever after....or wait...the story has just begun :)

Once upon a Fern Hill...

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For those of you who are not staying with us, highlighting a set of hotels that you can think of for your stay

The Vivanta Kolkata EM Bypass is a sleek and stylish hotel located in the city's thriving IT hub. With its contemporary design and cutting-edge technology, this hotel caters to the modern traveler. Guests can enjoy spacious rooms, diverse dining experiences,&nbsp;a rooftop pool with stunning city views, and a revitalizing spa. Its location on the Eastern Metropolitan Bypass ensures easy access to both the airport and the city's key attractions, making it a perfect base for exploring Kolkata.

Vivanta Kolkata EM Bypass

The Taj Bengal stands as an elegant landmark in the heart of Kolkata. This luxurious hotel blends old-world charm with contemporary style, reflecting the vibrant essence of the city. Known for its impeccable service and world-class amenities, the Taj Bengal offers guests a taste of opulence. With spacious rooms, diverse dining options, a rejuvenating spa, and a prime location near iconic attractions like the Victoria Memorial, the Taj Bengal promises a truly unforgettable stay in the City of Joy.

Taj Bengal, Kolkata

The Lalit Great Eastern Kolkata boasts a rich heritage as Asia's longest-operating luxury hotel. This iconic landmark in the heart of Kolkata seamlessly blends Victorian, Edwardian, and contemporary styles.&nbsp;With its lavish rooms, exquisite dining options, expansive spa, and a central location, the Lalit Great Eastern Kolkata invites guests to experience a piece of history combined with modern hospitality. It's a testament to the city's colonial past and its vibrant present.

The LaLiT Great Eastern Kolkata

The Kenilworth Hotel Kolkata offers a unique blend of colonial charm and modern comforts. Located in the city's bustling downtown, this 4-star hotel provides guests with a sophisticated retreat amidst Kolkata's vibrancy.&nbsp;The Kenilworth boasts spacious rooms, diverse dining options including a delightful English pub, relaxing spa facilities, and a welcoming atmosphere. Its strategic location and personalized service make it an excellent choice for both business and leisure travelers.

Kenilworth Hotel, Kolkata

Hotels

You will have ample time pre-wedding and post-wedding to explore the city of Kolkata. Putting down some must sees for those who are visiting the city for the first time.

Monuments

Princep Ghat offers a slice of Kolkata's rich history and a beautiful spot to relax along the Hooghly River. Admire the colonial-era architecture of the memorial built for James Prinsep, stroll the riverside promenade, and soak in the stunning views of the Vidyasagar Setu bridge. For a unique experience, take a short boat ride at sunset, and enjoy the city lights reflecting on the water.

Boating on the Ganges at Princep Ghat

If you want a taste of Kolkata's rich history and stunning architecture, Victoria Memorial is a must-see. This grand, white marble monument was built in honor of Queen Victoria and offers a fascinating glimpse into India's colonial past. Inside, you'll discover galleries filled with paintings, sculptures, and artifacts that tell the story of the city and beyond. Plus, the surrounding gardens are the perfect place to unwind with a picnic or a leisurely stroll.

Explore colonial era architecture at Victoria Memorial

For a truly unique and nostalgic experience in the 'City of Joy', a tram ride through Kolkata's bustling streets is a must. As Asia's only remaining operational tram network, these charming, old-world vehicles offer a glimpse into the city's rich history.&nbsp;Lose yourself in the rhythmic clatter of the tram as it winds through iconic landmarks and hidden corners of Kolkata, providing a perspective unlike any other mode of transport.&nbsp;The gentle pace allows you to soak in the vibrant atmosphere, observe daily life, and connect with the heart and soul of this captivating metropolis.

Take a historical tram ride

College Street is the beating heart of Kolkata's literary soul. Imagine a bustling street lined with countless bookstores – new, old, and overflowing with treasures. Whether you're searching for rare finds, classic literature, or the latest bestsellers, you'll get lost in this book lover's paradise. Don't forget to stop at the iconic Indian Coffee House for a strong brew and experience the lively intellectual energy that defines College Street.

Dive into the world of books at College Street

Experience the 'lungs of Kolkata' at the Maidan! This sprawling green expanse offers a unique blend of history, recreation, and the city's vibrant energy. Witness iconic landmarks like the Victoria Memorial and Eden Gardens while strolling through its open fields. Join locals for a picnic, watch a spirited game of football, or simply relax and soak in the atmosphere of this beloved urban park.

Go for a walk at Maidan

The largest and oldest museum in India, housing a vast collection of antiquities, including mummies, armor, and artifacts from various civilizations.

Indian Museum

Jorasanko Thakur Bari, the ancestral home of the Tagore family in Kolkata, holds immense cultural and historical importance.&nbsp;Rabindranath Tagore, the Nobel laureate poet, was born here. As a non-Bengali visitor, you’ll experience Bengal’s rich literary heritage, explore the preserved mansion, and connect with Tagore’s legacy. The architecture, art, and ambiance offer a glimpse into the past. Don’t miss this opportunity to immerse yourself in Bengal’s vibrant culture!&nbsp;

Jorasanko Thakurbari

Kolkata's Biswa Bangla Gate wows first-time visitors. Ascend to the viewing gallery for breathtaking panoramic vistas or experience a one-of-a-kind meal at the revolving restaurant, enjoying ever-changing cityscapes. Remember to book viewing tickets online beforehand, and if opting for the restaurant, dress up for a special fine-dining experience.

Biswa Bangla Gate

Restaurants and Pubs

Get ready for a flavorful journey through traditional Bengali cuisine at 6 Ballygunge Place. This beloved restaurant offers a delightful spread of authentic dishes, from creamy fish curries and flavorful vegetable preparations to their famous thalis. It's a fantastic spot to immerse yourself in the rich culinary heritage of Kolkata and experience the warmth of Bengali hospitality.

6 Ballygunge Place

For a taste of Kolkata's legendary charm and delicious food, look no further than Mocambo. This iconic Park Street restaurant has been serving up classic continental dishes since 1956. Step into its vintage atmosphere, savor favorites like their sizzling steaks, creamy deviled crab, and decadent desserts. Mocambo is more than just a meal; it's a slice of Kolkata's culinary history.

Mocambo Restaurant and Bar

Kolkata’s iconic Peter Cat is on a list of the 150 Most Legendary Restaurants in the World. This legendary Park Street restaurant is famous for its mouthwatering Chelo Kebabs – succulent kebabs served on a bed of buttery rice. The sizzling sizzlers are also a must-try. Get ready for a vibrant atmosphere, friendly service, and a taste of the city's culinary heritage.

Peter Cat

For a truly unique experience in Kolkata, consider a stay or even just a visit to the Floatel, India's only floating hotel. Permanently moored on the Hooghly River, this quirky hotel offers stunning views of the iconic Howrah Bridge and the city's vibrant riverfront. Imagine relaxing in your nautical-themed room, sipping a drink on the deck with the gentle water beneath you, and enjoying exquisite meals with a backdrop of Kolkata's skyline. The Floatel provides a memorable and luxurious escape from the city's bustle, blending novelty, comfort, and an unforgettable Kolkata perspective.

Polo Floatel - Kolkata

If you want to experience the true flavors of Kolkata, Arsalan is THE place to go for legendary biryani. Tender pieces of meat, fragrant rice, and a perfect blend of spices create a dish that's an absolute feast for the senses. It's more than just food– it's a quintessential Kolkata experience.

Arsalan Restaurant & Caterer - Park Circus

Step back in time and experience the royal flavors of Awadhi cuisine at Oudh 1590. This unique restaurant recreates the grandeur of the Nawabi era, serving melt-in-your-mouth kebabs, aromatic biryanis, and other delicacies fit for a king. With its opulent decor, live music, and impeccable service, Oudh 1590 offers a dining experience unlike any other in Kolkata.

Oudh 1590 Vivekananda Park

Are you a coffee lover seeking something beyond the ordinary? Then Craft Coffee Experience Center is a must-visit. This vibrant cafe is a celebration of all things coffee – from expertly roasted beans to creative coffee concoctions. Explore their extensive menu, savor the rich aromas, and maybe even learn about the art of brewing. It's a perfect spot to relax, fuel up, and discover why Kolkata's coffee scene is buzzing.

Craft Coffee Experience Centre - Ballygunge

For a cozy and inviting coffee experience, head to Roastery Coffee House in Gariahat. Their freshly roasted brews will delight your senses, and the tempting selection of pastries and snacks is the perfect complement. Whether you want a caffeine kick, a quiet place to chat, or simply to soak up the cafe's friendly atmosphere, Roastery Coffee House delivers.

Roastery coffee house ! Kolkata

Ping's Cafe Orient is a hidden gem where cool vibes meet delicious pan-Asian flavors. Their eclectic decor sets the stage for a fun and memorable dining experience. Savor expertly prepared dim sum, sizzling plates, and flavorful noodle dishes. While you are there don't forget to order the cream cheese Dimsums ! (recommendation from a close friend Deepak Rathi)

Ping's Cafe Orient

Flurys is more than just a restaurant, it's a Kolkata landmark. Step through its doors and you'll feel transported to a bygone era of elegance. Savor their classic European pastries, delicate sandwiches, and refreshing teas. Whether you're in the mood for a leisurely breakfast or a decadent afternoon treat, Flurys offers a charming experience that embodies the spirit of Kolkata.

Flurys

Craving Bengali sweets? Head to Mishti Hub in Kolkata, a paradise for sweet tooths. This unique destination brings together over 10 renowned sweet shops under one roof, offering Kolkata's classic treats like Roshogolla and Sandesh. Beyond the city favorites, explore a rotating stall featuring specialties from different districts of West Bengal, making Mishti Hub a one-stop shop for a delicious adventure through Bengali sweets.

Bangla Misti Hub

The Kolkata Coffee House, also known as the Indian Coffee House or College Street Coffee House, is a legendary cafe in Kolkata, India. It's one of the most famous branches of the Indian Coffee House chain, and has been a Kolkata institution since 1956. The coffee house is famous for its strong coffee, cheap prices, and relaxed atmosphere. It's a place where people come to chat, read, and soak up the city's intellectual vibe. The atmosphere is what is known locally as "adda," which means a place for informal gatherings and conversation.

Indian Coffee House

Local Shopping Destinations

Want a vibrant taste of India's diverse handicrafts? Dakhinapan is your destination! This open-air market is a treasure trove of regional arts and crafts. Explore stalls representing different Indian states, find unique textiles, handcrafted jewelry, home decor treasures, and more. It's a wonderful place to discover the artistry of India and pick up special souvenirs.

Dakshinapan Shopping Complex

Get ready for a shopping adventure! Gariahat is Kolkata's street market heaven. It's a buzzing maze of stalls and shops selling everything imaginable – colorful fabrics, beautiful sarees, trendy clothes, jewelry, and more. Sharpen your bargaining skills, embrace the lively atmosphere, and discover hidden treasures at every turn.

Gariahat Market

If you're looking for a true Kolkata experience, a visit to New Market is a must! This iconic, bustling marketplace is a labyrinth of over 2000 shops, hawkers, and stalls offering everything from clothes and jewelry to electronics and fresh produce. Embrace the chaos, hone your bargaining skills, and find some incredible treasures – it's the heart of Kolkata's shopping scene.

New Market Kolkata

Religious Interests

Experience the heart of Kolkata's spiritual energy at the Dakshineshwar Kali Temple. This beautiful riverside temple dedicated to the goddess Kali is a place of deep devotion and a major pilgrimage site. Immerse yourself in the vibrant atmosphere, witness the rituals, and feel the power of faith that has drawn worshippers here for centuries.

Dakshineswar Kali Temple

St. Paul's Cathedral offers a fascinating blend of history and beauty. This grand structure is a testament to Kolkata's rich colonial past. Step inside to admire its graceful architecture, intricate stained glass, and cool, quiet atmosphere – a welcome respite from the city's bustling energy.

St. Paul Cathedral Church

Kalighat Kali Temple is one of India's most revered Hindu temples, dedicated to the powerful goddess Kali. As one of the 51 Shakti Peethas (sacred sites), Kalighat holds deep religious and historical significance. The atmosphere is electric with devotion, offering a unique glimpse into Kolkata's spiritual heart that you won't find anywhere else. Be prepared for crowds and a potential sensory overload, but it's an unforgettable Kolkata experience.

Kalighat Mandir Shaktipeeth

Things to Do

Registry

Cocktail

Western formals. Suit or Tuxedos for men, Dresses for Women. T-shirts, Shirts in case you want something casual.

Haldi

Yellow, White or Orange Kurta with White Pajama for men. Yellow or Orange Sarees or Kurtis for women. Whatever you are wearing will have to be disposed post the event so plan accordingly :) Carry an extra pair given whatever you are wearing will get soaked.

Marriage

Indian ethnics for men and women. You can also choose to wear western formals. Highly reccomend that men go the Bengali way and dress in a Dhoti- Kurta. You can check ready made dhotis and kurtas on <a href="https://www.dheu.in/products/moyur-puccha-bengali-cotton-dhoti-ready-to-wear-1?currency=INR&amp;variant=40420430610618&amp;utm_source=google&amp;utm_medium=cpc&amp;utm_campaign=Google%20Shopping&amp;stkn=5dfd6afd313f&amp;cmp_id=18215392047&amp;adg_id=&amp;kwd=&amp;device=c&amp;gad_source=1&amp;gclid=CjwKCAjw3NyxBhBmEiwAyofDYVFsedzrT57XV14B03YwpGPLIBhIEI1OUVldvUhtJOk8PijZbm64pxoCEJoQAvD_BwE" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Dheu</a> or <a href="https://paramacalcutta.com/collections/mens-wear" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Paroma</a>

Reception

Indian ethnics or Western formals. Again, keep in mind the heat before choosing to wear something heavy !

Attire

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Biswa Bangla gate

Tourist Destinations

We have decided to undergo a Vedic wedding, which would be conducted by female priestesses led by Dr. Reeta Bhattacharya , an advisor of Subhamastu, who performs Vedic marriages with her own team .You can read more about their work here: http://www.shubhamastu.org/ Hinduism speaks of sixteen reforms in human life. The most important of these sixteen reforms is the marriage reform. Marriage is a sacred bond, which not only unites two people, but also teaches a newly married couple to fulfill their responsibilities.&nbsp;The word marriage literally means bearing responsibility, which is essential to protect the family as well as the society. A Hindu-Bengali marriage typically involves several rituals and ceremonies that blend traditional and cultural practices. Here’s a sequence of the events on that particular day:

Gayein Holud

Performed in the morning of the day of the marriage, where turmeric paste is applied to the bride and groom by their families to purify and beautify them for the wedding.

Boranugomon

In the evening the bride groom with his family and friends arrives at the marriage venue where the bride and the family await them. The groom comes to the bride’s place usually in a car decorated with flowers.&nbsp;The next step is the Jamai boron - the mother of the bride along with few other married women receive the groom.

Saat Paak

After taking little rest and refreshments&nbsp;bride groom comes and stands at a particular place. Then the bride will come in a wooden seat carried by four male members from the bride’s family (usually brothers of the bride). Whilst being carried the bride covers her face with betel leaves. The bride circumambulates the groom seven times helped by the male relatives carrying her.&nbsp;

Subho Drishti

The bride removes the betel leaves – when both the bride and groom look at each other -&nbsp;this is known as the "Subha Drishti" and is usually performed under a cloth awning.

Mala Bodol

The exchange of garlands between the bride and groom for 3 times. After these events bride and groom holding their hands go to the marriage dais and sit together. There are non Vedic local rituals. Then begins the Vedic rituals which starts with offering prayers to various gods and goddesses and ancestor to seek blessings.

Panigrahana

There are three steps to this: Panigrahana: Holding each other's palm Ganthibandhan: Tying knots with their clothes. It symbolises a virtual bond that never lets them to be separated from each other. Yagna / Homa: Here the bride and groom sit next to each other in front of the fire whilst the priest chants Vedic mantras which repeat when asked to and make ghee offerings to the fire.

Asmarohana

By stepping on the stone slab, this symbolizes overcoming all hurdles and negativity in life.

Saptapadi

The seven steps also known as the 7 vows or 7 pheras in Hindu weddings&nbsp;are taken to symbolize the bride and groom’s commitments to each other. The 7 vows are as follows-&nbsp;1. Nourish each other2. Be each other’s strength3. Stay Faithful to each other4. Love each other’s families5. Care for children6. Live a peaceful Life together7. Maintain the Bond of Friendship Saat Paak: The bride is carried by her brothers around the groom seven times, symbolizing their union. Lajohome: Bride and groom offer puffed rice to sacrificial fire and seek&nbsp;blessings from both set of parents.

Soubhagya Tilak & Sindoor Daan

The bride applies tilak to groom's forehead and then the groom applies sindoor (vermilion) to the bride's forehead through to the parting of the hair. The main attraction of the ceremony is Sindoor Daan. The bride and groom are then declared husband and wife.

Ashirbaad and Prarthona

Ashirwad and prarthana: Both the parents give blessings to the newly married couple followed by showering the newly married couple with flower petals and good wishes -&nbsp;by all guests. Samapti vachana: End of the ceremony – The priestesses pray&nbsp;for&nbsp;the&nbsp;couple.

Shreyoshi & Subhro

Shreyoshi & Subhro

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