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Where it  All Begun

Where shall we start? I suppose the best place is back in our small town of Hartwell, Georgia, where Howard and I attended the same church. Interestingly enough, his mother was my Sunday School teacher. We were often in each other’s orbit, yet we never truly noticed one another—until Howard’s senior year, the year he graduated and left for the Navy. I was just entering ninth grade, and while my parents knew we were talking, I was in a relationship at the time. That didn’t deter Howard; he pursued me with letters and thoughtful gifts. When he came home on leave, he would visit, and slowly, our friendship blossomed into something more.&nbsp; The picture you see here is from our prom in 1983. Howard returned home just to take me, and I still remember the promise ring he gave me. My grandmother, ever the skeptic, asked him, “What exactly is she promising you?” He replied, “It’s just an expression of love,” but I could tell she wasn’t convinced. As my senior year unfolded, however, my immaturity led us to drift apart. I longed for him to be present for all my special moments, but the reality of our lives began to pull us in different directions. Two years later, I married someone else and built a life with him for 34 years, raising three beautiful children. Meanwhile, Howard joined the Marines and married, too. For nearly three decades, we lost touch—so much so that I wasn’t even sure if he was still alive, serving in the military.&nbsp; Then, in 2016, out of the blue, Howard reached out to me on Facebook. It was the first time we’d communicated in years. Four years later, after my husband passed away, Howard sent his condolences and began checking in on me. Shortly after, he suffered a stroke, and suddenly, it was my turn to check on him. Our conversations naturally turned back to what had happened between us all those years ago. We often wondered if it was a familiar spirit guiding us back together or if it was God’s hand at work. As we rekindled our friendship, Howard faced a significant challenge: an accident led to the amputation of his leg. He had to navigate a new reality, spending time in various rehab centers. Meanwhile, I had moved to Roswell, feeling led by the Lord. Through it all, our bond deepened, and we realized our feelings had shifted from friendship to something more profound. We prayed and fasted about the direction we were heading. Then, on October 6, 2023, he proposed. I should have seen it coming; all week, he had been hinting at where I wanted to eat, encouraging me to pick a nice restaurant. I played coy, and in the end, he proposed at Waffle House—my exhaustion after work made it the most convenient choice. It was a humorous moment, and I could see the nerves dancing in his eyes. We’ve faced our share of challenges, but through it all, God has remained faithful. He is restoring Howard and growing me in ways I never imagined. I can truly testify to how good our Heavenly Father has been to us. Howard is a gentle soul, a loving partner, and a warrior for the Lord.&nbsp; Now, we’re counting down to May 24, 2025, the day we’ll unite in marriage. We are both filled with excitement and hope, trusting in God for this reunion. May the Lord receive all the glory for our union.

God's Provision

Our Story

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Charlene is Sonia's first cousin and is like a sister.  Charlene was in Sonia's first wedding in 1986 as her flower girl. She is married and has one son in High School and one adult son. Charlene is the person that keeps Sonia walking a straight line, but is always near when needed. She is the author of several children books. 

Charlene McGlockling

Sonia and Cheryl have been friends since  Middle School. She is that friend that you always know is there for you. Cheryl has 2 daughters and likes quiet time when she is not working. She is always fun to be around.  She actually knew Howard and Sonia when they dated in High School in the early 80's. 

Cheryl Curry

Laretha aka Reecie, has been friends with Sonia since 2001. They met when Laretha was a sub in a special needs class.  Their friendship has grown since that time and they spend time together attending concerts, shopping, eating, and watching movies.  Laretha is married and has 3 adult children and 1 grandchild.

Laretha Morrison

Maya is always a joy to be around. She is Sonia's first cousin and also was a flower girl in her first wedding.  She is married and has two children.  She is a relationship coach & podcaster. She also has a YouTube channel entitled Relationship Talk with the Geths'. Her website is www.OneVisionerc.com

Maya Geth

This is a picture of my cousins in my 1986 wedding. 

Charlene McGlockling and Maya Geth (1986)

Brielle aka "Lil Dot" a nickname I gave  her because she favors her grandmother Dorothy Fouch, which was my aunt.  I was the flower girl in my Aunt Dorothy's wedding.   Bre is a smart, energetic princess and the daughter of Ed and Maya Geth.  I can't wait to see this princess on the wedding day. 

Brielle Geth

Ayden (10) and Amir (4) are Sonia's grandsons. Parents are Derek and Stacy Cobb of Austell, GA. They love to wrestle with each other and are just active boys. 

Ayden and Amir Cobb

Eliis is married to Howard's sister Renita.  They will be married for 37 Years this year.  He served in the military for 4 years.  They have 2 grown children and one gorgeous granddaughter. Ellis is enjoying time with his wife and family in retirement now.

Ellis Arnold

Paul and Howard became friends from hanging out with Sonia and Reccie.  Paul has been an encouraging friend for Howard.  He is married to Laretha (Bridesmaid).

Paul Morrison

Sonia wouldn't dare do anything without this cousin.  He is such an inspiration to her.  He has a great testimony about his life and enjoys life.  We are so proud of Keith and his accomplishments.  This guy can be the life of the party too. He is an admissions coordinator for one of the oldest youth wards in Philadelphia and in his spare time referee college games.  He is considering pursuing his doctorate. Gotta love this guy! 

Sebastian Haley Mayfield known as Keith

Pastor of El-Bethel non-denominational church in Dallas, Ga.  He is married to Cynthia and they have 3  adult children.  He is Howard's first cousin. 

James Warren

Christopher is an Insurance Broker and lives in Houston, Texas. 
Graduated from UGA.

Christopher Cobb

Derek is the father of the Ayden and Amir ( the ring and security guards. :) Derek is married to Stacy and graduated from UGA. He is an assistant principal in the Atlanta Public School system and reside in Austell, Georgia. 

Derek Cobb Jr.

Avery is a financial broker near Palm Springs, Fl. He is married to Jennifer and they have a 1 year old son Troop.  Avery is Sonia's first cousin and always can get the party started. 

Avery Harper AKA "Big Baby"

"B" is Sonia's cousin by her late husband Derek Cobb.  He is like a son to her too.  He is a Senior Investigator for Fulton County District Attorney's Office and serves as a City Councilman of Maysville, Ga.  He also sits on the city council.  This guy is always up to something.  It is possible that his future may hold a position of him being a Senator or US representative.  Love this guy! He loves the political world. 

Brodriche Jackson

Chase  will be a senior in high school fall of 2025.  This guy has all the confidence in the world for everyone.  He plays several sports and is definitely ready to take on the world.  His parents are Charlene and Michael McGlockling and second cousin to Sonia. 

Chase McGlockling AKA "Boobee"

Noah is an outstanding young man who graduated with his Masters's Degree by the age of 21.  He is currently working as an underwriter and enjoying life.  He is Sonia's second cousin, but seems like a grandson.  Parents are Charlene & Michael McGlockling.  

Noah McGlockling

Isaiah is the god son to Sonia and the late Derek Cobb. He is the son of Gary & Kimberly Jordan, and he is also a musician who recently graduated from Belmont University with a master’s degree. He enjoys spending time with friends and family. His interests are in dance, yoga, music, learning new things, going to concerts and traveling. 

Isaiah Jordan

Sonia and Cindy became friends while working in education in Hartwell. They have known each other for over 20 years.  Cindy is a counselor in Clarke County and is pursuing her doctorate.  She hopes to have her own office in the future counseling people.   

Cindy Allen

This chick and Sonia have known each other over 20 years.  Stefanie started out as Sonia's hairstylist and over time their friendship developed.  Stefanie is an awesome hairstylist but an even better friend. She has 3 children and is currently working in healthcare and styling hair on the side.  Just a great person to know. 

Stefanie Gunter

Lisa and Sonia have been friends for 30 years.  They met when Sonia moved to south Georgia and lived in a small town named Ashburn.  Sonia was Lisa's teacher's assistant in Pre-K.  

Lisa Lovett

Sonia has known Kelly since her birth.  Sonia and Kelly worked together in education for many years.  Kelly is known as a sweet lady that is willing to help out wherever she can.  She teaches 5th Grade and has 1 adult daughter Jasmine. 

Kelly King

Armani has been around Sonia since she was in 5th grade.  She just completed her degree and is currently loving life being a young adult.  She was Sonia's babysitter after Derek's death. She has a helping spirit.   We are so honored to have her be part of our special day. 

Amarni Singleton

Taylor is an outstanding lady with strong political views.  She is the bride's goddaughter and daughter of Cheryl Curry.

Taylor  Curry

Madison is a senior in high school.  She is quiet, yet can be opinionated.  She is Taylor's younger sister, daughter of Cheryl Curry, and Sonia's goddaughter.

Madison Curry

Wedding Party

Q + A

The Beacon Bed and Breakfast

Hampton Inn Hartwell

Hampton Inn & Suites Lavonia

Hilton Garden Inn Anderson

Comfort Suites Anderson-Clemson

Home2 Suites by Hilton Anderson Downtown

Holiday Inn Express & Suites Anderson-I-85 (Hwy 76, Ex 19B), an IHG Hotel

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Rings need to be cleaned the week of the wedding.

KAY Jewelers

Cateechee Golf Club

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