We are throwing two after-wedding parties to celebrate our union with our extensive network of family and friends. These after-parties are open to ALL. The RSVPs help us estimate how many people to expect, but you are welcome to bring plus ones, babies, pets, and whatever you need to ensure you have a great time! Virginia After Party Questions? Please email deborsnarr@gmail.com Durango After Party Questions? Just show up.

We live in a small apartment, so we don't need more things! If you'd like to gift us anything, we'll accept money towards our honeymoon or future home funds. No amount is too small or too big, it all adds up and helps us achieve our goals!

For those of you coming to our micro-wedding in the mountains. Here's the scoop: We've booked out the Wyman hotel for the night so no one has to drive back over the pass after dinner, and so our guests can feel at home (with us) in the mountains. Your kids are welcome, but please leave your pets at home. No smoking or outside alcohol permitted. We have already assigned a room for all of our guests, so pack your pajamas and get ready to party all night long. Contributions towards your room are welcome, but not required. Please reach out to Spen and Nick for more details!