Is there a date for the wedding?
Yup! We have secured our venue and date! Be ready to have tons of fun with us on March 22, 2025 at The Tides Estate, located at 1245 Belmont Ave, North Haledon, NJ 07508.
Is there a room block for out of town guests?
Yes! We have secured the room block at the Best Western Plus Fairfield Executive Inn, located at 216 US Highway 46 in Fairfield, NJ. When making the reservation, please reference either my name or Chris' name. The rate is $209/night plus applicable taxes. Rooms MUST be booked by February 20, 2025 to receive the special rate.
Oh, and yes, there will be a shuttle service to/from the venue.
Is there parking at the venue?
Yes! There is complimentary valet parking and self parking.
What is the earliest I should arrive to the venue?
Please arrive no earlier than 5:00PM to the Tides Estate. Upon your arrival, you will be greeted with champagne, bellini, mimosas, sparkling and non-sparkling water. Our ceremony will begin at 5:30PM PROMPT.
What is the dress code?
Please dress in cocktail party attire. Please do not wear jeans. And - for the love of all things sacred, ladies, please do NOT wear white, cream or ivory.
Can I bring a 'plus one'?
We are at capacity with our venue which means we are sadly unable to accommodate additional guests. If your invitation does not specify "and guest" you will not be permitted to bring a plus one. We look forward to celebrating with you on our big day!
Are kids invited?
We have decided to have adults only at our wedding.
Will this event take place indoors or outdoors?
The majority, if not all of the event, will take place indoors. However, if we are blessed with good weather, we will make the decision to have the ceremony outdoors. In addition, there will be outdoor seating via the cocktail hour room in the event anyone needs to go outside for fresh air.
What is your timeline of events?
5:00 Arrival
5:30 Ceremony
6:00 Cocktail Hour
7:00 Reception
11:00 Departure
After Party - TBD
Is The Tides handicap accessible?
Absolutely! There is a ramp to enter the facility, and an elevator to escort you downstairs. Once downstairs, you will not have to come upstairs for any reason, until you depart.
Can I take pictures?
We have hired two professional photographers and a content creator to capture how the ceremony looks, we have invited you so you may capture how the ceremony feels. We would prefer if it turn off your electronics during our ceremony to ensure you are in the moment and not in the way of our photographers and content creator. After the ceremony is complete and the wedding party has exited, you may turn on your devices and take pictures of whatever you wish!
What type of food and drink will be served during the cocktail hour and reception?
Our cocktail hour will include passed hors d'oeuvres, as well as a hot and cold display of a variety of delicious foods. Come hungry! Our bar will consist of unlimited beer, wine and soda. We will have "signature" drinks at the wedding, both alcoholic and non-alcoholic.
I have dietary restrictions/allergies. What's the best way to let you know?
We will note this in our response cards, although we are pretty sure we know everyone's restrictions. We WILL offer a large variety of gluten free and vegeterian options. Upon request, any of our guests can be served a Kosher meal in lieu of their plated dinner.
Will there be dancing?
There will definitely be an amusing interpretation of it, that's for sure! We hired someone to play music for your entertainment.
Do you have a wedding registry?
We sure do! Please visit www.theknot.com/theonewiththefrancescos, and click on "registry".
What's the "wedding hashtag"? How can we share photos with you?
Our wedding hashtag is #theonewiththefrancescos (for those who have never watched "FRIENDS", every episode begins with "The One with/where..." and we played off of that! Also, on every table, there will be a QR code where you can upload photos right to our site!
Can I bring my gift to the wedding?
Your presence is simply being present, but should you wish to bring a gift to our wedding, there will be a gift table for your convenience.
Do I have to RSVP? Can't I just tell you I'm going to be there (or not)?
Yep, you have to RSVP. For the sake of our sanity, please use the RSVP link at the top or the QR Code on the wedding invitation. It is far easier for us than dealing with 50 forms of communication for RSVPing. If you are having issues with RSVPing online, please email us at mrscfran@gmail.com
What do I do if something changes and I can/can't make it after I have RSVP'ed?
We understand things come up. Just call us right away. You have at least one of our phone numbers.
What's the best way to contact you if I have additional questions?
Feel free to reach out to either one of us on our cell numbers via text and we will get back to you at our earliest convenience.
Who can I contact with any additional questions on the day of your wedding?
Please contact one of the following individuals if you have questions on the day of our wedding:
Alicia Freeman (Day of Coordinator) - 973-917-9106
Maria Apostle (Maid of Honor) - 201-294-3651