Cocktail/Formal attire. We suggest that men wear a suit or dress shirt with a tie and women wear a women wear a cocktail dress or a nice pantsuit.

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also add to day of* include it will take you x* amount of time to get to the ceremony (part of parking and travel and venue info . Ensuring your guests are in their seats on time, will get your festivities off to the right start. You know your ceremony venue best, so if it requires a 15-minute walk into a forest or 20 minutes to park in a city lot and walk over to a place of worship, give your guests a heads up. It's reasonable to ask guests to arrive 60 minutes beforehand in order to be in their seats 30 to 45 minutes before the ceremony starts. While they're waiting, they can admire the ceremony decor, listen to prelude music, read your ceremony program and acknowledge other guests,

Although we love our little ones, our wedding day is an adult-only celebration. We appreciate you making arrangements ahead of time and leaving your kiddos at home so you can celebrate with us!

If there's a shuttle, public transportation, drop-off area, taxi stand or the venue(s) are within walking distance, give your guests all the details so they can plan ahead.

Fill your guests in on all the parking info and options available including whether they can leave their car overnight if they'd like to take a taxi home after a few drinks.

Help your guests further prepare for the weather conditions. Let them know whether your wedding reception, cocktail hour and reception will be indoors or outdoors. You could also provide some details about your Plan B in case of rain.

Out-of-town guests will need to arrange accommodations and so give them options.

If you have a lot of out-of-town guests, consider providing a shuttle service to get them to and from the venue(s). If not, that's okay, simply suggest their best transportation options for getting there.

Similarly, share any local weather knowledge. This is especially important for a destination wedding or for out-of-town guests less familiar with your region.

Because of limited venue space, we unfortunately can't accommodate plus-ones beyond those named on the wedding invitation. We hope you understand our decision. Since we want to keep our wedding as intimate as possible, we're only inviting our closest loved ones. We look forward to seeing you soon!

Sure you want there to be some surprises at your wedding, but providing guests with a few menu details will help them plan accordingly. Again, you don't want hangry wedding guests. Say something like "We'll be serving hors d'oeuvres at cocktail hour followed by a sit-down dinner with a choice of entree" or "a buffet with a selection of meat, fish, vegan dishes and salads will be served" or "we'll have food stations with several types of cuisine to choose from".

Your guests with dietary restrictions will appreciate knowing their menu options. Also, direct them to your online RSVP to note their preferences.