Packer Memorial Church

Wedding Day

Ceremony

Iacocca Conference Center

Reception & Cocktail hour

Fall

"Congratulations to the beautiful couple ..."- Colette Rhue "Congratulations to you both! I love you!" - Katrice Gray "...we wish you a world of happiness and love. May God bless your upcoming nuptials. We love you!" - Mr. &amp; Mrs. Elijah Robinson "...congrats to the beautiful couple! ❤️" - Mike &amp; Kristina Washington "We are both so happy for you and are wishing you the best day celebrating your love!" - Michael &amp; Courtney Cleminshaw-Mahan "...we are so happy for the both of you and your impending nuptials. Much love 🖤" - Kyler &amp; Essence Grigsby "Congratulations, Diamond!! Sending you both love."- Kelsey Gaier

Well Wishes & Much Love on Your Journey!! 

Our Wedding

From the groom's perspective:We were both following a Christian influencer, JustWhiti, on Instagram who created a dating website called TheDatingProject. At the time, I was hesitant because of my previous experiences with dating. I got the premium membership and went in depth on my profile about want I wanted. I was serious and wasn't interested in playing games with nobody. In my searching, I saw Diamond's profile. Not only did her beauty captivate me, but her profile also showed that we wanted the same things - in just a few sentences.After going through a season of growth and healing, I wanted to make sure I did not rush. It was weeks before we met in person. During those weeks, we had long, exciting conversations online, which made my desire to meet her stronger.When we met for our first date, she gave me a big church hug, and I laughed inside. I realized that she was true to the woman of God she portrayed online. We talked for hours. I was more drawn to her than before, simply in awe of this amazing woman.By the end of our first date, I deleted all my dating profiles online. I had found my "hidden treasure in a field" (Mt 13:44). As our time together passed, I fell more in love with her every day.I knew that she was the woman I wanted to share my life, start a family with, and continue walking in our God-given purpose together for a lifetime.&nbsp;

How did we meet?

From the bride's perspective:In my season of waiting, I continued to live, growing in my faith, praying, and serving. I was working on myself and preparing to be the woman the man I'd been praying for wanted. It was hard to wait, but I knew God wasn't cruel. If He'd allow me to still desire marriage, He'd one day fulfill it. I trusted Him to give me the discernment to know when I met the right person. I knew what I wanted in a husband. He must be a man after God's own heart.While dating Stephen, I realized that God gave me what I wanted and needed in him. Stephen sees me, covers me and meets needs I didn't know I had. He is funny, gentle, consistent, faithful and he creates a safe place for me to be vulnerable. He is actively pursuing God, loves God more than anything, and his faith walk encourages me. He did not rush me, instead he led me with patience, love and a heart of servitude throughout our courtship.With all the transitions I was facing when he proposed, it was obvious that saying yes to him was the right choice. I am at peace when I am with him. I'm excited to see how God uses us and our story.

Why did you say yes?

"Love is patient, love is kind...It always protects, always trust, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails." - 1 Cor 13:4-8

Our Story

Our Courtship

Photos

Diamond is a reflection of God's grace to me. She is kind, humble, gifted, compassionate, loving, supportive, and the list goes on. Her faith is her anchor and she is a shining light. I am elated to say I do to my future wife.

Diamond Carr

A man of integrity, his presence is felt in the room. He cares genuinely for those around him but don't be deceived, the man is just as animated as I am. I look forward to the sunshine and the rain with Stephen. I know I'm safe with and loved by him. 

Stephen Jacob

Lawrence is Stephen's younger brother. A successful, well-rounded gentleman. Stephen is grateful to have his brother stand with him on this special day.

Lawrence Jacob

Michael is Diamond's younger brother with the heart of the protective eldest. Their bond is undeniable, and she would not want to do this day without him. They're not twins but that telepathy is strong!

Michael Carr II

One of the bride's best friends and loudest cheerleader's, Molene does it all! She took the vision and ran with it. Molene has seen Diamond through many years and tears. She is grateful to have her share in this day. 


Molene Ogany

One of Diamond's closest friends from her Rider Unashamed choir days. You need a Tiara on your team. She is an extremely loyal friend, a rare find and Diamond is grateful she is participating in this day with her by her side.

Tiara Rainey

Triniti is a sister of Tiara, and like her, adopted Diamond into their family. She is experienced in planning fall/winter weddings, enjoys it and is clearly good at the craft. Thank you for your yes Triniti!

Triniti Barron

Wedding Party

Q + A

This airport is 12 minutes away from the wedding ceremony &amp; reception venue. Please plan accordingly.

Lehigh Valley International Airport

This airport is over one (1) hour away from the wedding &amp; reception venue. There are more non-stop flights arriving and departing here. Please plan accordingly.

Philadelphia International Airport

This is the couple's preferred hotel. It is about 15 minutes away from the venue. Parking is included, at no additional cost. Last day to reserve is November 2, 2025.

Hampton Inn & Suites Bethlehem

This is another great option for accommodation. It is about 7 minutes from the venue. Rooms cost about $104 per night (varies depending on booking).

Candlewood Suites Bethlehem South by IHG

There are 3 options for parking Alumni Parking Pavillion (pictured here; 6 minute walk), Zoellner Parking Garage (430 E Packer Ave, Bethlehem, PA 18015, 10 minute walk), and street parking. All of these options require payment at about $1.50 an hour. The ceremony is estimated to be an hour. Please allot yourself enough time to arrive, find parking and walk to the church. Remember this is a week day and classes are in session.

Ceremony Parking Instructions

Please park in the lot all the way to the back that says Visitor parking. You will not have to pay.

Reception Hall parking

Travel, Hotel & Parking

One thing, we love to do is travel!While you are here to bear witness to our union, take some time to get to know the Lehigh Valley. It's most stunning in the fall foliage!So, if you're feeling outdoorsy, take a stroll or explore the trails at <a href="https://delawareandlehigh.org/explore-the-corridor/plan-your-trip/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">The Delaware &amp; Lehigh National Heritage Corridor.</a>There is so much to do like go for a bike ride, take a hike to catch the views from the tower trail, visit the National Canal Museum to learn its history or grab a canoe to ride the Lehigh River.

If you're more of a foodie, or just want to try a real Philly Cheese Steak, check out the restaurants in <a href="https://www.visithistoricbethlehem.com/visit/visit-category/dining/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Downtown Historic Bethlehem</a> or <a href="https://www.discoverlehighvalley.com/events/holidays-christmas/christkindlmarkt/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Christkindlmarkt Bethlehem</a>.

Stephen + Diamond