Wedding Reception 

Rend Lake Conservancy District Event Center

Reception

Our Wedding

In May 2023, Jaden began messaging Steven, who initially didn’t respond. Undeterred, Jaden continued reaching out persistently. After much persuasion, Steven finally agreed to meet Jaden at the beginning of June 2023, hoping that meeting in person might deter Jaden. To Steven’s surprise, despite his initial reluctance, he found himself intrigued by the charming Country Redhead. Their connection grew as they began talking multiple times a day and going on dates. On July 19, 2023, they decided to make their relationship official. Jaden had already met Steven’s parents and friends, but soon after, he started introducing Steven to his own circle. After several months, Jaden brought Steven home to meet his family, and Steven reciprocated by introducing Jaden to his family in his hometown. The couple embarked on trips with family and friends to places like Memphis, TN, St. Louis, MO, Nashville, TN, Gulf Shores, AL, and Florida. Through these adventures, their love story truly blossomed. Jaden and Steven proved to be a perfect balance for each other, especially during challenges, such as the construction and installation of a new pool. They tackled the project together, discovering they could accomplish anything as a team. On December 7, 2024, Steven proposed to Jaden at the Cedarhurst Christmas Lights display in Mt. Vernon, IL. Jaden and Steven are deeply grateful for the love and support of their family and friends and are excited to share their special day with all of you!

Steven & Jaden Story

Our Story

Photos

Tammy Martin-Doty

Tiffany Etherton

Denise Minor

Julie Littlefair

Jerra Barton

Jacob Bridges

Tommy Waldrop

Jeb Baumgart

Evan Healy

Matthew Long

Wedding Party

Cash Bar Available

Additional Parking on South Side of Venue in Field

Q + A

Benton Motel

If you mention your attending the Pate/Barton Wedding 10% off your room booking.  They also have condominiums available. 

Rend Lake Golf Resort Lodge

SureStay Hotel by Best Western

Places to Stay

Pheasant Hollow Winery

Rend Lake Golf Resort

Great Place to Eat with Outdoor Patio and Live Music

Jack Russell Fish Company

Boat Rentals, Camping, Bike Trails, Fishing (Fishing License can be acquired at the Benton Walmart)

Rend Lake

Things to Do

Registry