There are two different invitations being sent out. Our guest list is limited and at this time our ceremony will be open only to our siblings, parents, grandparents, aunts and uncles. These individuals will receive an invitation saying "Ceremony and Reception." Cousins, friends, and other attendees will receive invitations saying "Reception." We understand this may cause some confusion or frustration but we wanted an intimate moment with these select few individuals. We are paying for our wedding and had a specific vision and these are the guidelines set in place for us to achieve the wedding of our dreams.

We ask at this time that nobody dress in all black or white. Black pants and a different colored shirt would be perfectly fine.

We encourage that your kids dress up in costumes as we will be doing something special for them. Adults are more than welcome to dress in costume as well. There is plenty of rooms in the venue if you want to show up in dress clothes and later change into a costume.

Our reception will have a cash bar open to those 21 and over. There will be non-alcohol beverages available as well. We have made a selection of wine, beers, and top shelf liquor. (Shots are not allowed at this venue but mixed drinks are)

Invitations state the time the event will start, however, please note that doors will open 30 minutes prior to the time listed on the invitations. If you normally run late to events, please plan ahead and arrive 30 minutes prior to the time stated on the invitation. (Once the ceremony has started, the doors will be closed until the ceremony is over. The doors open at 6 for the reception so please arrive closer to this time if you know you run late.)

The typical response so far is "you're aware that's a Thursday and Halloween, right?" Lol. We are very much aware it's a Thursday (weddings are stupid expensive on Fridays, Saturdays, and Sundays). Logan's only request for the wedding was to choose the day. He's always wanted a Halloween wedding and I am more than happy with that day as well. Please know that when we chose this date we kept in mind the holiday that fell on it. This is why we will be doing something special for the kids who come (also why we are encouraging kids and adults to dress in costume if they want to). Also, we kept in mind that many families spend this holiday trick-or-treating and/or spend it with grandkids or friends. We completely understand if that is still your plan for the night and we will not be hurt if you are unable to make it due to these prior arrangements.

The event is intended to end at 9:30pm, absolutely no later than 10pm. Last call at the bar will be 9:45pm but Logan and I will be leaving a bit before that. With that being said, please do not feel obligated to stay the entire time. We are happy to see everyone and celebrate with everyone as long as you want to stay. With the wedding being on a Thursday, we kept this in mind so that the end time would still allow everyone to be in bed at a somewhat decent time. Also, there is a loft in this venue. This loft is specifically for the wedding party, however, we know that some of the tinies will be tired before the end of the event. If you intend on staying for the entirety of the event, we would be more than happy to make the loft space somewhere the littles can lay down.

Our guest list is very limited so at this time we will not be allowing any plus ones other than the ones we have already accounted for. When you RSVP on the website, it will state who is included in your party. Please do not bring a plus one if it does not state that you can bring a guest. Please do not write anyone in either. Please also note that if someone included in your party’s invitation is not able to make it that is not an open invitation for someone different to fill that spot. Again, our list is VERY limited so this is nothing against anyone, this is just our way to keep our day intimate with those that mean the world to us. We love you all and want to spend our big day celebrating with those we love. ****ONLY the people named in your invitation are allowed to attend. There are absolutely NO substitutions allowed if someone addressed on the invitation cannot make it****

We are doing a cash/money honeymoon fund. Under the tab that says registry there is a link to our honeymoon fund or we will also have a place for cards and honeymoon fund gifts at the wedding. We have opted out of items for the house as we have been living together for 3 years already and already have everything we need. :)