Our wedding is Garden Formal. We kindly ask guests to wear floor-length dresses or formal suits. Given the July heat, we suggest light, breathable fabrics and flowy silhouettes for comfort. Soft florals, pastels, and elegant touches are always welcome. Think romantic, refined, and celebration-ready beneath the summer sky!

Invitations to RSVP will be sent closer to the wedding date, both by mail and to the email address you provided on your Save the Date. This helps us ensure that everyone replying is truly able to attend.

We’ve recommended several beautiful hotels, all within a few miles of the Philbrook Museum. You’re warmly welcome to stay at one of these, or wherever you feel most comfortable. Details and booking links are on our website under the Travel & Stay section

For ease (and a carefree evening!), we recommend using Uber or Lyft to and from the wedding. All recommended hotels are within a short drive of the venue, and rideshares are readily available in Tulsa.

Join us for a relaxed and casual Welcome Party on Friday, July 10, 2026, from 6:00–8:00 PM at 2142 N. Denver Blvd, Tulsa, OK 74106. This come-and-go gathering is a chance to say hello, enjoy light hors d’oeuvres, and ease into the weekend with familiar and new faces. No need to dress up — casual attire is perfect, even if you're arriving straight from your travels. We recommend Ubering or taking a Lyft from your hotel, as parking may be limited. We can’t wait to greet you!

Although we adore your little ones, this is an adult only celebration.

If you received a plus one, your guest was explicitly included when your Save the Date was shared and was asked to complete an individual form. As a general guideline, all married couples have been thoughtfully accommodated with a guest. While we would truly love to celebrate with everyone, we are working within a limited capacity and are unable to extend invitations beyond those already included.