Yes! Please join us for all parts of the wedding weekend! We want to spend as much time with everyone as we can. Simply RSVP to which events you will be attending, so we can plan accordingly. Friday evening and Sunday morning will be casual and you are responsible for getting to the venue and back to where you’re staying safely.

We are renting buses to pick everyone up at their hotel or air bnb and bring them back. Roxbury, NY is in the mountains so please book the accommodations listed as we know those are accessible to the bus. If for some reason you are not able to make the bus as scheduled, there is parking on site for you to drive yourself. We discourage this as much as possible as we want everyone to have a fun and safe evening!

Please note that it is important to us to spend this special day with those closest to us. In that spirit, we have allocated plus ones to those people who have partners we are familiar with. If you’re one of those people, that will be included when you RSVP. We thank you all for understanding our wishes to keep this wedding intimate and full of family and friends.

If you have tried all of the accommodations listed in our “Travel” section, and nothing is available, please let us know. We can vet other air bnbs to ensure that the bus can get to you!

One of the many reasons we picked this wonderful venue is they don’t have a curfew! So after the reception, we welcome those of you who want to keep the party going to join us for the “After Party” in the barn lounge. The buses will be taking guests home in shifts from 10pm to Midnight to ensure everyone is safely back at their hotels/air bnbs after partying to their hearts content!

Summer Cocktail Attire! Dress pants and button up, any color! Feel free to wear short sleeve dress shirts so you can be most comfortable. Jackets and blazers optional. Dresses, rompers and pant suits! (Any color besides white, please!) Heels or flats, whatever will keep you going.

Yes! OUTSIDE We will be having a marijuana friendly wedding so feel free to indulge, responsibly. Please make sure you stay outside and use ash trays. We do not want to leave a mess on this beautiful property.