Due to limited space, we are only able to accommodate those guest formally invited on your wedding invitation. If you received a plus one, their name will be linked with yours when you RSVP. Thank you!

We decided to keep our wedding and reception an adult only event. Invitations will be specific and will include the names of those invited. Thank you for understanding.

We would love to see our family and friends dress up with us. We are requesting cocktail attire (semi formal) for our wedding. Please no jeans!

Transportation will not be provided. Vesuvius Vineyards offers on site parking and allows you to leave your car overnight. Ubers must be scheduled in advance due to limited availability in the area. Please drink responsibly.

We have a block of rooms reserved at the Hampton Inn Charlotte North/Lake Norman for 8/30-9/1. Rooms must be reserved by 7/30 to receive special discount. This hotel is 30 minutes from the venue. Please call the hotel directly to book and mention “Wilson/Birkofer Wedding” for discount. 704-892-9900

Cocktail Hour- jalapeno poppers stuffed with pulled pork bbq wrapped in bacon and Focaccia w/ oil and balsalmic Dinner: Blackberry Salad , Tuscan Chicken, Grilled Flank Steak w/ Portabella Mushrooms Sides- red potato's, green beans, rolls