When should I RSVP?
Kindly RSVP by February 26, 2026! If you do not RSVP by this date, you unfortunately will not be able to attend the reception. Thank you for understanding!
What should I do if I can't make it?
You will be missed! If you cannot attend our wedding, please indicate this on the RSVP tab so we can plan accordingly.
What is the dress code?
We would love to see our guests dressed up for our big day! Formal, black-tie optional attire is preferred. For ladies, this means ankle to floor length dresses. For men, formal suits or tuxes. Any whites, creams, ivory or champagne colors are reserved for the bride!
What time should I arrive to the ceremony?
Please arrive no later than 2:40 for the ceremony start time of 3:00 pm. If you arrive after 3:00, you will not be able to watch the ceremony.
Can I take pictures during the ceremony?
We will be having an "unplugged ceremony" (no phones or cameras). We have hired professionals to capture this moment for us and we promise to share our photos as soon as we receive them! We truly wish for you all to be as present as possible as we say "I do." After the ceremony, feel free to take as many photos and videos as you'd like!
Will the wedding take place indoors or outdoors?
The ceremony, cocktail hour, and reception are all indoors. There is an outdoor seating area at the Watermill if you'd like some fresh air throughout the night!
Can I bring a date?
Due to limited space, we are only able to accommodate those guests formally invited on your wedding invitation. If you received a plus one, they will appear on your invitation. Thank you for understanding!
Are kids invited?
We love your little ones! However, we have decided to keep our wedding and reception an adults-only event, with the exception of our flower girls. We encourage you to use this evening as a date night!
Will there be an open bar?
Yes! We will have a full open bar, along with 2 specialty cocktails, for the cocktail hour and reception. Drinks on us!!
If I'm coming from out of town, where should I stay?
We have arranged a hotel block at the Hilton Garden Inn in Ronkonkoma for our out-of-town guests! However, you may stay wherever you'd like! We recommend staying in the Commack/Smithtown area and using Uber or Lyft to go back and forth from where you're staying to the church/Watermill. Please see the "Accommodations" tab above for more information on our hotel block!