Thomas & David

April 13, 2025 • Manheim, PA

Thomas & David

April 13, 2025 • Manheim, PA

Q + A

Can I RSVP online or do I have to mail in an RSVP card?

We invite you to RSVP online at the RSVP tab. Nothing to mail back. Save your stamp!

What date should I RSVP by?

March 16th, 2025

What are the addresses of the wedding ceremony and reception venues? Are they wheelchair acccesible.

Our ceremony and reception will be held at 210 S Penn St, Manheim, PA 17545.

Will the venue be handicap accessible?

Yes! Please, let us know if you need accessibility accomodations. We will have staff assist (There will be stairs at the venue).

Is there parking available near your wedding venue?

For guests within driving distance of the venue, there is free on-site parking.

Will your wedding be indoors or outdoors?

All events will be held indoors.

What's the dress code for your wedding?

The dress code is daytime formal.

Are there any colors or styles you'd prefer me to wear?

NO PURPLE, ORANGE OR GRAY or our bouncer will not let you in (haha but really don't try it). Think springtime blooming. We invite you to wear fun, saturated colors, so mostly anything goes. For the women, we ask that you avoid plain black dresses. For the men, we prefer blue, navy, tan, etc. suits but if you will be wearing a black suit, please accessorize with either a fun colored/patterned shirt or a colorful tie. This applies to any they/thems too. Feel free to navigate to the dress code inspiration tabs for ideas!

Am I allowed to bring my children?

We love your children, but due to space restrictions, we cannot accommodate guests under age 16 on our wedding day.

Am I allowed to bring a plus-one?

Unless otherwise stated on your invitation, we ask that you bring no surprise guests, please!

What type of food will be served at your wedding?

We'll be serving hors d'oeuvres at cocktail hour followed by made-to-order stations inspired by your favorite brunch dishes! The gays love a good brunch.

Will there be an open bar?

Yes. We'd like to inform you that due to PA's Alchohol laws, bartenders will not be serving any shots throughout the whole event.

What time should I arrive at your wedding ceremony?

Doors will open at 10:30 AM where we will be serving pre-ceremony snacks. Ceremony will start promptly at 11:30 AM.

What time will your wedding reception end? Is there an after-party?

The reception will end at 5:00 PM followed by an after-party at 7:30 PM at the Lancaster Marriott's rooftop bar, The Exchange.

Am I allowed to take photos at your wedding?

For the ceremony we ask that you please refrain from utilizing your cellphone as the couple will be having professional photography taken.

Can I post wedding photos on social media?

Yes you may!

Are there any cultural traditions or best practices guests should be aware of?

There will be no bride, two grooms, and one smooch.