We are both happy with the last names that we already have and will continue to go by John Asmus and Thomas Lee.

We met in 2017; our first date was at Bazil's Pub in Appleton.

There are not a lot of hotels in Downtown Oshkosh. The closest is The Best Western Premier Waterfront Hotel. There are several other hotels off of the main highway US 41. Airbnb and Vrbo also have great options.

The cocktail hours will feature a few different options, including vegetarian options. Dinner is family/community style and is fairly traditional fare for a wedding. If you have a dietary restriction, please include that on your online RSVP and The Howard will plate a separate meal for you. Late nights snacks will accompany the bowling. In short - eat a small lunch you will have plenty of food!

You're welcome to drop in an out of the venue as needed. The ceremony, cocktail hour, dinner, reception, and bowling are all located at the same location, so you'll know where to find us.

For men, we recommend semi-formal. For women, we recommend cocktail/semi-formal.