Cantigny Park

Wedding Day

Ceremony

Reception

Our Wedding

It all started in March 2024 with a dating app match — and a little bit of luck! Our first date just so happened to be Nilo’s birthday (no pressure for Tracy, right?). To make things even more memorable, the restaurant had a photographer who insisted on taking our picture. They posed us close and cozy — and it was&nbsp;awkward. Tracy was convinced Nilo had planned it, which almost became a deal breaker! Thankfully, that awkward photo turned into the start of something amazing. Our first few dates were spent on long walks with Guna, exploring outside, and getting to know each other. Tracy soon met Brianna, and the two hit it off instantly — playing Barbies and having all the girl fun. One of Nilo’s favorite memories is watching how naturally Tracy connected with Brianna and seeing them laugh together. As our relationship grew, so did our little family time. Tracy loved learning all about bowling from Landyn (and maybe showing off a few strikes of her own), while Nilo discovered there’s a&nbsp;whole world&nbsp;beyond basic pink when it comes to picking the perfect outfit with Natalie. These moments became some of our favorites — reminders of how much joy comes from the little things. A big milestone early on was our trip to Laguna Beach, one of Tracy’s favorite places in the world. It was the first of many adventures — we both love to travel and explore new places, and have a growing list of trips and experiences ahead of us. We also love being at home together, cooking side by side, and making family dinners where everyone gathers around the table to laugh, share stories, and create memories. We look forward to many more nights like that — with each other, and with all three of the kids — building a life full of love, laughter, and everyday adventures. What started with an awkward photo on a birthday date has grown into a beautiful, blended family and a life we can’t wait to keep creating together.

❤️ Our Story

Our Story

Photos

Landyn Parchem

Natalie Parchem

Andrew Slinkman

Elaina Slinkman

Brianna Parchem

Nora Slinkman

Steve Dell           

Chris Slinkman

Wedding Party

Think cocktail-level attire with a romantic, outdoor feel. Please choose footwear suitable for grass as the ceremony will be a mix of grass and limestone paths.

Dress Code

Hyatt House Chicago/Naperville/Warrenville

SpringHill Suites by Marriott Chicago Naperville/Warrenville

Courtyard by Marriott Chicago Naperville

Travel

When and where is the wedding?Ceremony: The Rock Garden at Cantigny Park at 5pmReception: The Woodside Pavilion at Cantigny Golf Course following the ceremony

What time should I arrive?Please arrive by 4:45 in the garden space - so allow yourself enough time to park and walk to the site - it's about a 10 min walk through the park.

Is the ceremony and reception at the same location?Ceremony and reception are both within Cantigny, but guests will drive from the ceremony site at the park to the golf course for the reception.

What should we do when we arrive at Cantigny Park?Let security know you’re attending the Slinkman/Parchem wedding. They’ll direct you to the ceremony site and where to park.

What type of dinner will be served? Family-style dinner.  Are there vegetarian or kids’ meal options?  Yes! Please let us know on your RSVP if you prefer a vegetarian meal or need a kids’ meal.

Will there be an open bar?  Yes! We will have an open bar during cocktail hour and the reception and wine served during dinner.

Are kids welcome?  Yes! Our family’s little ones will be part of the day — we’d love for yours to join too.

What is the attire? Think garden formal but also know we will be outside for the ceremony and cocktail hour.

We kindly ask guests to refrain from wearing perfume or cologne.

FAQ's

Registry

Wedding Day! 

Wedding DetailsWe are so excited to celebrate with you! Below are the details to help you plan for our big day. CeremonyFriday, May 22, 20265:00 PMCantigny Park – Rock GardenWheaton, Illinois Our ceremony will be held outdoors in the Rock Garden. Please plan to arrive 20–30 minutes early to allow time for parking and walking to the ceremony site.In case of inclement weather, the ceremony will be moved indoors at Cantigny. Cocktail Hour Immediately following the ceremony at Woodside Pavilion at Cantigny Golf course. This will be outside on the porch and grass of the pavilion. ReceptionFollowing cocktail hour at Woodside Pavilion at Cantigny Golf course - so no need to go anywhere! Dinner, drinks, dancing, and lots of celebrating to follow. We can’t wait to spend the evening with our favorite people.Reception ends at midnight — come ready to dance 💃🏻 ParkingParking is available on-site at Cantigny Park and the golf course.Please follow signage upon arrival. KidsWe love your little ones! Children are welcome to attend.We’ll have a small kids’ activity table during the reception to help keep everyone happy and entertained. Questions?If you have any questions leading up to the wedding, feel free to reach out to Tracy or Nilo directly. We are so grateful you’re part of this season with us.May 22 can’t come soon enough 🤍

Tracy & Nilo

Tracy & Nilo

T&N

Wedding Day

5:00 PM–5:30 PM

Ceremony

6:00 PM–12:00 PM

Reception