Tristan & Steven
June 22, 2024 • Greer, SC
Tristan & Steven
June 22, 2024 • Greer, SC
Wedding Party
Ben Harben - Best man
Ben is Stevens younger brother. He is a heck a lot of fun to be around and has a heart of gold. Steven says he's always available no matter what.
Izabella White - Maid of Honor
Izabella is my free will child. My oldest daughter. Everyone says she looks most like me, she’s way prettier. She has a gentle spirit and a desire to care for others in so many unseen ways. She’s my lover.
Ralph Hobson - Best man
Ralph is Stevens best friend of 20 years. He gives great advice. He's calm and objective. He’s loyal and always makes time for their friendship. He’s also has a great eye for deals!
Tristiana White - Maid of Honor
Tristiana is my second born daughter. She is the child who is most like me. Which means she’s amazing! She is outspoken and has the most sincere heart. She has the biggest desire to do God‘s will, which means she has your best interest in that big heart. She also has no fear. She’s gorgeous and anointed.
Machia White - Escorting Bride
Machia is my second born. He also tends to look like me. He is my rock. If I can’t handle the weight, he lifts it with me. He’s strong and stable and does what’s right when no one is looking. He’s a blessing.
Melania White - Bridesmaid
Melania is my third daughter. When I thought I couldn’t have another child be more different, she came into this world and exploded it. She has great humor, strong determination, and a drive to try everything. She’s bold and confident and tender inside. She is sheer fun.
Aaron Finley - Groomsman
Aaron is Steven's youngest nephew. He's laid back and has a passion for history and trying new things. He is outgoing and fun loving with a terrific wit.
Sophia Harben - Bridesmaid
Sophia is Stevens youngest daughter and soon to be my 5th daughter. She is bold and daring. Steven says she is passionate about everything that's important to her especially CAT's. Not only is she pretty she also has a loving heart.
Blake White - Groomsmen
Blake is my second nephew. He’s a good guy that has my little brothers abilities to fix things I don’t even understand. He has a good head on his shoulders, a good heart in his chest. And such sensitivity. He a sweetheart.
Nicholette White - Bridesmaid
Niki my precious fourth daughter, is my tender child. Her heart is huge and pure. She loves people and sees them for who they are inside. She is kind when the rest of us are not. She helps keep us grounded. She is whimsical and playful.
Jake Finley - Groomsman
Jake is Stevens oldest nephew. He is soft spoken and loves music. He is usually quieter when everyone's together but if you're on the right topic he will talk. He is tenderhearted and loving.
Shai White - Bridesmaid
Shai is my only girl niece on my side of the family. She was the first grandkid. This means she was the most spoiled, however she turned out amazing, confident and smart. She is an awesome mommy. And she's crafty. She’s a joy to know.
Bailey White - Groomsmen/Flower boy
Bailey is my third nephew and youngest of the boys. He likes to try crazy stuff. As you will soon see at the wedding. He is daring and fun and likes to have a good time. He is genuine.
Katarina Harben-White - Flowergirl
This kid is my seventh daughter to be. She keeps to herself most of the time, but when she says something we can’t help but laugh. She is spunky and quirky and has a great sense of humor. We are also excited to be adopting her, as well.
Gage White - Groomsmen
Gage is my oldest boy nephew. He loves to try new things. He’s like a giant teddy bear. He wraps you in his arms and gives you the best bear hugs. I bet he gets it from his dad who I have always called Bear. He definitely learned to be loving from him, my oldest brother Teddy.
Shelby Harben-White - Bridesmaid
I am getting to know this daughter of mine. She’s going to become my sixth. While we are adopting, we are getting to know one another she is valuable. She volunteers to help out and tries to be knowledgeable about what she does. She has a desire to do great things.
Halston White - Escorting Bride
Halston, is my youngest son. He loves me deeper than anybody else in the whole family. He’s still at the age where kisses and hugs are our favorite part of the day. His two little dimples can melt my heart at any time. He is a smart kid who is fighting for his spot in this big family. He will be a great defender someday.
Jackie Harben - Flower girl
This cute doll is Jackie. She is Steven's youngest niece and the biggest daddy's girl. She is sweet and has beautiful eyes. She giggles a lot, and she loves to play games.
Kane McKinney - Groomsmen
Kane is quiet and shy, and probably didn’t speak to me for the first two years he came to my house. He was always watching. After a short two years, I got a few more words now he talks regularly. He’s a sweet young man.
Ava Owens - Flowergirl
Ava, Kane’s sister is the opposite of him! She came over talking when she was teeny tiny and hasn’t stopped yet. She loved to chat and hang out and always has a smile on her face. Unless she’s mad, don’t get her mad.🤣
Hudson White - Ringbearer
This little guy is shy at first. But get him talking about dinosaurs and you’ve got him. He’s a great big brother and a fun little cousin. His imagination never stops.
Bentley White - Ringbearer
Bentley is wide open! He will hug and love on anybody never meet a stranger and is ready to play at all times Including 3 or 4 o’clock in the morning when we’re at a campout!🤣 He is a hoot!
Jessica Mugde - Bridal attendant
Jessica is my oldest best friend. She has been through more of life’s garbage with me than anyone else and she has always been by my side. I can call her at any time and she’s always available. She is my true friend.
Tiphany White - Bridal attendant
Tiphany is my only remaining girl cousin! She is more fun than you can ever imagine, wrapped up in one person. She is beautiful inside and out. Smart and funny. To know her is to love her.
Isabella Muehleisen - Bridal attendant
I met this beautiful girl via my son. She is his girlfriend of many years. But she has become family to us. She is sweet, and watches far more than she talks. She takes in things and stores them in her heart, and applies them in her life.
Marry Alice Harben - Bridal attendant
Marry Alice is Stevens oldest niece. She is growing up so quickly. Steven says she's mischievous don't blink or you will miss what she's up too. She is very active and enjoys nature.
Isabella Harben - Bridal attendant
Ella is Stevens middle niece. She is very social and never meets a stranger. She loves to make people smile which is why she cheers. She is also a real girly girl.
Taylor Dilly - Bridal attendant
Taylor is another one of my kids from another mom and one of Tristiana’s best friends. She also spends a lot of time at our house. Taylor has eyes that sparkle and her smile lights up the room but she’s kind of quiet, so pay close attention or you’ll miss how much fun she is.
Bobbie Rice - Bridal attendant
Bobby is another one of Tristiana‘s closest friends. Whom also spends a lot of time at my house. These girls have been hanging around for years with us. And feel like family. Bobbie always gives me the sweetest hugs. She is a kind hearted soul.
Meryl Fallot - Bridal attendant
Merrill is one of Melania’s closest friends. And one of the most respectful young ladies, you will meet. She always has a smile on her face and something nice to say.