We meet in an online theater class at San Francisco State University during the COVID-19 pandemic. Willow saves a poem Erik wrote as a class assignment.
November 01, 2021
Willow sees Erik's halloween post on Instagram and decides to start a conversation. We hit it off and plan a date.
November 20, 2021
Our first date. We have pizza by the slice, walk though Golden Gate Park, explore the DeYoung Museum, enjoy a sweet treat at Joe's Ice Cream, and share our first kiss. The day after, Erik tells his roommate (and now groomsman) Joe that he thinks Willow might be the one.
December 10, 2021
Erik co-stars in a scene showcase of a script Willow wrote for her Father, Jeff.
January 01, 2022
We make it official at midnight of the new year!
January 14, 2022
We go on our first trip together. Erik meets Willow's nephew, Alex.
May 27, 2022
We graduate undergrad at SFSU together.
September 03, 2022
Erik secretly buys Willow's engagement ring!
January 01, 2023
We celebrate our first anniversary!
June 01, 2023
We move in together!
June 16, 2023
We adopt our first pets–five mice named Gene, Thistle, Ivy, Luna, and Nova.
January 01, 2024
We get brunch at Four Chairs in San Francisco to celebrate our second anniversary.
May 17, 2024
Willow's sister, Amanda, gets married, and Willow catches the Bouquet! Just the day before, Erik lets Willow's Uncle, Johnny, know that he is planning to propose.
June 28, 2024
Erik proposes, and Willow says yes!
September 28, 2024
We celebrate 1,000 days together!
January 01, 2025
We celebrate our third anniversary at Jupiter in Berkeley. We get slightly fancier pizza than we did on our first date.
March 01, 2025
We adopt our kitties, Midge and Moog!
March 03, 2025
We find the perfect venue for our wedding!
May 20, 2025
Willow graduates with her Masters degree from SF State!
January 01, 2026
We celebrate our fourth anniversary with a romantic dinner at the Laundromat and dancing at the Make-Out Room!
February 14, 2026
Erik treats Willow to a Valentine's Day water tasting!
March 28, 2026
Friends and family in NorCal gather for a lovely wedding shower!
June 26, 2026
We will celebrate our big day with friends and family!
In the lobby of our apartment building, there's a large mirror. It reminds us to take a picture before we go out or when we get back from doing something fun. That mirror has watched us grow throughout our entire relationship. Here are some of the things it has seen.