It all began in 2012–2013. One day in the cafeteria there Abraham was. A freshman football player waiting for the bell to ring. Anxious about transition from middle school to high school. A girl with long braided hair walked by with books in her hand. Immediately Abraham fell in love.

They soon met through mutual friends and instantly became best friends. As they got to know each other over the next year, quick conversations turned into grabbing snacks and eventually eating lunch together.

Xitlali was focused on her grades, while Abraham only cared about sports. Abraham's passion was football, and Xitlali’s was dance. Yet, they never missed a single game or performance. Always each other’s biggest cheerleaders.

Always patient— (even after rejection) Abraham knew he had found the love of his life. He was patient and respected Xitlali, she had trouble trusting in love and was not ready for a relationship. Abraham waited patiently, there was no rush in his eyes. "Sometimes, love means waiting a little longer, even when you don't want too."

One day he finally made his move after lunch, he got down on one knee (his left knee), held out a green Ring Pop, and asked, “Will you be my girlfriend?”

Without hesitation, Xitlali said "yes." They were opposites on paper, but somehow, they just fit.

Since 9-5-13, their love has been inseparable. They promised to always be there for one another—through the highs and lows—and to support each other’s dreams, goals, and accomplishments.

Xitlali challenged him, and he made her laugh and somewhere between halftime drills and dance routines, they found their rhythm. Xitlali was in the top 10% of the class; Abraham was just proud he’d made it. I used to do your homework, now I get to do forever with you.

Their first dance wasn’t perfect. Abraham’s two-step is still off beat, and Xitlali always tries to lead—but they laugh, just like they always have. And somehow, just like always, they fall into sync. They didn’t need anyone to believe in them. They believed in each other.

And still, she’s smiling—because she knows that behind his easy going nature is a man who has stood beside her, grown with her, and loved her for over a decade.

Together, they’ve always dreamed of building a future side by side. Over the past 11 years, they’ve supported one another through college and the start of their careers as educators.

Within those ten beautiful years, Abraham once again got down on one knee—this time, not with a Ring Pop, but with a diamond ring—and asked for her hand in marriage. Abraham asked permission from Xitlali's family who happily gave there blessing.

Now, going on year twelve, they finally get to say their “I dos.” From high school sweethearts to adulthood, their love has only deepened. "I look at you and see the rest of my life in front of my eyes"

They are endlessly grateful to God for bringing them together and cannot wait to celebrate their love story with all of you.

X&A

Wedding Day