Kathyrn and Abbie have been friends since they were both 13. They met playing softball in middle school and hit it off immediately. Even though they grew up going to different schools, they melded each friend group they had into one big group. During high school, they may have concocted a bit of trouble by throwing a few parties at Kathryn's parents house, but that's what teenagers are supposed to do, right? Though college took Kathryn to California and then after, Abbie left the country for her 3 year stint in Korea, they kept in touch. Kathryn has been that rock for Abbie. She is the most supportive, caring, joyful yet sassy friend anyone could ask for. Whenever Abbie is going through it, no doubt Kathryn is right there ready to be a shoulder. Kathryn- you've always rooted for me. I couldn't think of anyone better to stand next to me on my big day. I love you bb!!

Benny and Tyler met on the North Bothell Little League fields in 1991. Although they were competitors at the time, little did they know that they would reconnect and become great friends at the age of 12. Ben and Tyler attended middle and high school together- and throughout the entire time, they played ball together, a game they both love. Although geographically separated for a majority of their adult life, Benny and Tyler make time for each other. Last April, they were able to roadtrip from Tennessee to Augusta to experience the Masters together! And most recently, Tyler and Abbie visited Ben and Amanda in Nashville, where Ben helped plan the proposal! I loved standing next to you on your big day, Benny- thank you for standing next to me!

Jen and Abbie have known each other since... day 1. Jen and Abbie are cousins (Carlson family, where you at?!?) and even more so, friends. Through their love of travel, exploring new countries, flying across states and continents to see each other, they've become so much more than just family. Jen has always been there for Abbie- with a solution... just fly *insert Jen's current location* and let's go have fun! If you know Jen already, then you know that she is quite possibly the coolest person on this planet. Her sass, pure knowingness of who she is and her outlook on life are unmatched. No matter what, Abbie can always count on Jen, even if she's 8,000 miles away (literally- she's in Antarctica as I write this). Jen, you have been more than a cousin, your my friend, my sister, one of my soulmates. I love you dearly and I am so happy that you will be standing with my on my big day.

Craig Tupper, Tyler’s English teacher (and Tup’s older brother), introduced Tyler and Tup one night at a Bothell high school basketball game. And to say the rest is history, is a little bit of an understatement. Tyler and Tup both attended Edmonds CC, and both went on to Western Carolina in Cullowhee, to play college ball together. But before they left Edmonds, they won the 2003 NWAC Championship. Both pitchers, both 5 foot nothing, both competitors, both bulldogs… Tup headed down to Western Carolina a year before Tyler due to Tyler’s Tommy John surgery. But once they reconnected, they stayed close friends. From teammates, college roommates, adult roommates, and your best man at your wedding, we’ve been brothers for a long time. Thank you for standing up there on my big day too, Tup.

Lindsay and Abbie met awkwardly in middle school, with Lindsay's incredible pick up line of "Hey... do you like my socks?" Abbie, in dire need of friends said yes. But from that day forward, Lindsay has been a constant in Abbie's life. Peanut Butter & Jelly since puberty, they continue to find time for each other, even though life is busy. Lindsay is one of the funniest, most sarcastic and dark humored people you'll ever meet. And if you know Abbie well, you know that fits her vibe exactly. Lindsay keeps is so honestly real and there's no one else Abbie would have wanted to meet on the fateful day in middle school P.E.. Lindsay- you are the realest, funniest human being I've ever met. I'm so grateful to call you a friend and even though I know I'm not your best friend, I am happy to settle for 2nd. I love you so much, you weirdo and I am so grateful that you'll be standing with me on my big day. Love you PBJ.

Tyler and CRuss were competitors in the 4th grade elementary school track meet. The event was the ball throw and CRuss destroyed Tyler. Even though they went to different elementary schools at the time, CRuss would join Tyler in 5th grade at Fernwood Elementary and they’ve been friends ever since. CRuss, the free spirit of the group, marches to the beat of his own drum. Because of CRuss’ personality and his love for exploration, he and Tyler have experienced some crazy things together. From a Seahawks game at Lambeau in 2016 (btw, Wilson had 5 picks that night 🙁) to Benny’s Nashville move-in party, our our high school road trips to B.C.and our NCAA tournament in Portland. CRuss- I love that you’re my yes man. I can count on you to always try new things, travel to new places and give me a different perspective on life. Thank you for being with me on my big day, I can’t wait to watch you marry your love in Iceland after mine! Love you man!

Melissa and Abbie have been friends since kindergarten. Growing up only two streets away from each other meant that they both had built in friends throughout elementary, middle and high school. And over the last 30+ years, even though months may go in between them speaking, they’ve stayed great friends. Melissa is one of the funniest, wittiest, pee your pants laughing people you’ll ever meet. With her sense of passion for life- literally you can call Melissa anytime and she’s DOWN to hang out, people flock to her. And throughout the years, Abbie and Melissa have bonded over their laughs, jokes and love for the group of friends they’ve created. Meliss- you make me cackle nearly every time I see you. I love you immensely and I am so thankful that you’ve been in my life for 30 freaking years! I cannot wait to have you stand by me on my big day. You are one of my true soul sisters. Here’s to 30 more years, slug!

Similar to Tup and Tyler’s friendship, Tyler and Haggett met at Edmonds Community College playing ball. If Tyler was left handed, he’d be Haggett on the mound. These two are essentially the yin and yang of community college baseball pitchers. Tyler and Haggett ventured off to different sides of the country to play college ball after ECC, however they always made for each other whenever Tyler was back in the Seattle area. Tyler could always count on a free couch at Haggett’s apartment to crash on. And vice versa- Haggett has always made time to visit Tyler in Detroit. From Silvertips games and Apple Cups, to season ticket holders for the Hawks, you’ve always been there for me whenever we needed to send it. You’ve been an ear when I needed it… I appreciate you man! Thank you for being a part of my big day.

Jen and Abbie have been the best of friends, through thick and thin, ups and downs over the past 15+ years. Meeting through mutual friends in highschool, Abbie and Jen became fast friends. Working together at their first job as baristas, throwing parties (sorry mom!) and running in the same crowd throughout high school. Jen is one of the most loyal human beings you’ll ever meet. Her dedication to friendship, learning from others, sincerely committing to her community and always up for a glass of wine is the reason her and Abbie have remained friends for so long. Jen- you have been the best friend I could ask for! From visiting me in England, running around Bellingham and Seattle, going out in NYC and sharing our HORRID dating stories… you’ve always been there. I love you so, so much and I cannot wait to have you by my side on my big day!

Tyler and Joe (aka Captain Tug), went to high school together. Joe, a year younger, met Tyler through mutual friends and Bothell baseball. Between rolling the rock, hobag, dinner at La Pa (South Everett location), Joe has always been the grown up of the group and Tyler always looked up to Joe because of this. From dad’s weekends filled with golf to the famous Bailey Family Christmas parties (here-yee, here-yee!!), Joe has been that constant in Tyler’s life. Joe is someone Tyler has always been able to count on. Even if they disagree half the time, Joe is that guy that you know will always be there. Joe, I’m sorry I was late to your wedding, please don’t be late to mine. Love you bud, see ya up there!