Schlafly Bankside

Rehearsal Dinner

Le Belle Coeur

Wedding Day

Ceremony

Reception To Follow

Winter

Our Wedding

Like any good love story, ours started over machine guns, MREs, and the both of us smelling.... well, not our best. That’s right - we hit it off at a ROTC field exercise in Fort Leonard Wood, Missouri.&nbsp; We became fast friends and one day Joey sent me a text that said, “How do I cook a cube steak?” Clearly I had no idea so just told him to Google it.&nbsp; Joey then offered to cook me a cube steak and the rest is history. Turns out…the text was actually meant for his mom…but he played it off well.&nbsp; Since then, we’ve been nearly inseparable. We’ve had adventures riding horses, hiking in Washington, and coming up with creative ways to make long distance feel not so long.&nbsp; We can’t imagine our lives without one another or cube steaks and are thrilled to finally make it official.&nbsp; Thank you all so much for your support. Our time together is special, but our time with all of you will be the most memorable of all. Catch ya’ on the dance floor!

Our Story

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Abby's triplet sister. Katie has spent a lifetime perfecting how to push all of Abby's buttons. Despite twenty three years of bickering, and Abby's bullying, she still shows up daily. She is quick witted, intelligent,  compassionate. (And yes, Katie has written all of Abby's papers, essays, and assignments since middle school.)

Katie Kottmeyer

Joey's older brother. A role model in wrestling, Army career, and life. Set the standards high, but always was encouraging along the way.  Most importantly, always willing to hop on a motorcycle. 

Sam Williams

Abby's triplet sister. Becky is fiercely loyal, eccentric, and caring. She will never deny an ice cream cone or an adventure. She is Abby's biggest fan and most trusted confidant. 

Becky Kottmeyer

Joey's college best friend. From high school wrestling rivals, to teammates, to best friends. Max is consistent, invested, and patient. He has shaped who Joey is today as an athlete and a leader. 

Max Darrah

Joey's younger sister and biggest fan. Has spent a lifetime listening to Joey's test jokes, funny or not. Don't let the sarcastic banter fool you, she is kind to her core. 

Sarah Williams

Joey's childhood best friend. Met in preschool and have been best friend ever since. Despite years of trying, Victor still wins every basketball match against Joey.

Victor Wanjohi

Joey's older sister. Has convinced Joey to participate in everything from dress up, to debuting as the star of a dance show. She is intentional and is everyones biggest cheerleader.

Erin Williams

Marcus is a great barber, and an even better friend. Possibly the nicest drill sergeant you will ever meet, and definitely the best looking. He is reliable, funny, and always has a listening ear. 

Marcus Slattery

Wedding Party

Q + A

Near Ameristar Casino St. CharlesMake yourself at home in one of the 133 guestrooms featuring refrigerators and microwaves. Your pillowtop bed comes with premium bedding. 32-inch LCD televisions with cable programming provide entertainment, while complimentary wireless Internet access keeps you connected. Private bathrooms with shower/tub combinations feature designer toiletries and hair dryers.When you stay at Best Western Plus The Charles Hotel in St. Charles, you'll be in the historical district, within a 5-minute drive of Ameristar Casino St. Charles and Hollywood Casino Amphitheatre.  This hotel is 1.9 mi (3 km) from Lindenwood University and 2.1 mi (3.3 km) from Family Arena.Distances are displayed to the nearest 0.1 mile and kilometer.  Ameristar Casino St. Charles - 0.8 km / 0.5 mi  Historic Main Street - 1 km / 0.6 mi  Lewis & Clark Boathouse and Nature Center - 1.2 km / 0.7 mi  SSM Health St. Joseph Hospital - 1.4 km / 0.9 mi  First Missouri State Capitol Historic Site - 1.8 km / 1.1 mi  Lindenwood University - 2.4 km / 1.5 mi  Katy Trail - 3.3 km / 2.1 mi  Family Arena - 3.4 km / 2.1 mi  Jaycee Park - 4.1 km / 2.5 mi  Hollywood Casino Amphitheatre - 5.1 km / 3.1 mi  Centene Community Ice Center - 6.8 km / 4.2 mi  Hollywood Casino - 7.4 km / 4.6 mi  Kokomo Joe's Family Fun Center - 8.1 km / 5.1 mi  Barnes-Jewish St. Peters Hospital - 9 km / 5.6 mi  Fresenius Medical Care - 9.2 km / 5.7 mi  The nearest airports are:St. Louis Lambert Intl. Airport (STL) - 12.7 km / 7.9 mi St. Louis, MO (SUS-Spirit of St. Louis) - 27.4 km / 17 mi The preferred airport for Best Western Plus The Charles Hotel is St. Louis Lambert Intl. Airport (STL). Be sure to enjoy recreational amenities including an indoor pool and a fitness center. This hotel also features complimentary wireless Internet access, gift shops/newsstands, and a fireplace in the lobby. Getting to nearby attractions is a breeze with the complimentary area shuttle.Featured amenities include a business center, express check-in, and complimentary newspapers in the lobby. Free self parking is available onsite.Enjoy a satisfying meal at Dennys serving guests of Best Western Plus The Charles Hotel. A complimentary buffet breakfast is served on weekdays from 6:00 AM to 9:00 AM and on weekends from 7:00 AM to 10:00 AM.

Best Western Plus The Charles Hotel

Near Ameristar Casino St. CharlesMake yourself at home in one of the 86 air-conditioned rooms featuring refrigerators and microwaves. Complimentary wired and wireless Internet access keeps you connected, and satellite programming provides entertainment. Private bathrooms with shower/tub combinations feature complimentary toiletries and hair dryers. Conveniences include desks and coffee/tea makers, as well as phones with free local calls.With a stay at Country Inn & Suites by Radisson, St. Charles, MO in St. Charles (St. Charles Historic District), you'll be a 1-minute drive from Ameristar Casino St. Charles and 5 minutes from Hollywood Casino Amphitheatre.  This hotel is 1.8 mi (2.9 km) from Lindenwood University and 2.2 mi (3.6 km) from Family Arena.Distances are displayed to the nearest 0.1 mile and kilometer.  Lewis & Clark Boathouse and Nature Center - 0.3 km / 0.2 mi  Historic Main Street - 0.3 km / 0.2 mi  Ameristar Casino St. Charles - 0.7 km / 0.4 mi  First Missouri State Capitol Historic Site - 1.1 km / 0.7 mi  SSM Health St. Joseph Hospital - 1.3 km / 0.8 mi  Lindenwood University - 2.6 km / 1.6 mi  Katy Trail - 2.7 km / 1.7 mi  Family Arena - 3.5 km / 2.2 mi  Jaycee Park - 4.2 km / 2.6 mi  Hollywood Casino Amphitheatre - 6.2 km / 3.9 mi  Centene Community Ice Center - 7.7 km / 4.8 mi  Hollywood Casino - 8.6 km / 5.3 mi  Kokomo Joe's Family Fun Center - 9.1 km / 5.6 mi  Barnes-Jewish St. Peters Hospital - 9.8 km / 6.1 mi  Fresenius Medical Care - 10.1 km / 6.3 mi  The nearest airports are:St. Louis Lambert Intl. Airport (STL) - 13.6 km / 8.4 mi St. Louis, MO (SUS-Spirit of St. Louis) - 28.2 km / 17.5 mi The preferred airport for Country Inn & Suites by Radisson, St. Charles, MO is St. Louis Lambert Intl. Airport (STL). Enjoy recreational amenities such as an indoor pool and a fitness center. Additional features at this hotel include complimentary wireless Internet access, concierge services, and a fireplace in the lobby.Featured amenities include complimentary wired Internet access, a business center, and dry cleaning/laundry services. Free self parking is available onsite.A complimentary buffet breakfast is served daily from 7:00 AM to 9:00 AM.

Country Inn & Suites by Radisson, St. Charles, MO

Travel

Historic District St. Charles: Walk along 16 blocks of shopping, dining and lodging in historic, restored structures on the banks of the Missouri River. Settlement dates to 1769.

St. Charles Historic District

Nano brewery and retro arcade. Pinball, arcade games, and 35 beers on draft.

Two Plumbers Brewery + Arcade

Visit the largest outdoor ice rink in the Midwest.

Steinberg Skating Rink

Ameristar Casino Resort Spa St. Charles

Check out Missouri Botanical Garden's Garden Glow. Over one million lights to enjoy.

Missouri Botanical Garden

Rec Hall&nbsp;is like your best friend's backyard, but better! Equipped with your favorite games, corn hole, ping pong, giant Jenga, and more!

Rec Hall STL

Take a tram to the top, or visit the museum located at the bottom.

Gateway Arch National Park

Enjoy the Union Station Hotel light show, Ferris wheel, mini golf, or aquarium.

St. Louis Union Station

Beat the cold with indoor rock climbing. Auto belay, top rope, lead climbing and bouldering available!

Abby & Joey

Abby & Joey

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