"Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate" Mark 10:9
Abby & Jacob
September 5, 2025
Abby & Jacob
September 5, 2025
What is the dress code?
Black Tie Optional / Formal.
Slightly more flexible than black tie.
Men: Tuxedo or dark suit and tie.
Women: Long dress, dressy cocktail dress, or formal jumpsuit.
Will the ceremony and reception be indoor or outdoor?
Everything will be indoor. The ceremony and reception will both be held in the Crystal Ballroom and cocktail hour will be held in the Colonnade.
What type of food will be served?
You will choose your main course when you RSVP. The options are Cabernet Braised Beef Short Ribs or Chicken Stuffed with Herb Mousse. We will start with a salad and end with cake and coffee!
Are kids invited?
We love your little ones but this is an adults-only celebration! The Homestead may be able to assist you with childcare if needed.
Is it okay to take pictures with our phones during the ceremony?
We kindly ask that you refrain from taking photos during our ceremony. We’ve invited a professional photographer to capture every special moment, and we’d love for you to be fully present with us! Feel free to take all the photos and videos you’d like during the reception.
Can I bring a plus-one?
If your invitation includes a guest! It will appear on your RSVP.
Is there a hotel block?
Absolutely! Be sure to follow this link to book at The Homestead. https://bookings.omnihotels.com/event/homestead-virginia/abigail-shaver-jacob-nester-wedding-ro We highly recommend.
Is there parking available?
Yes, valet service will be provided.
Where do I RSVP?
There is a tab at the top of our website! Click that and follow the prompts.