Wedding

Sacred Heart of Jesus Catholic Church

Ceremony

Weston Red Barn Farm

Reception

Our Wedding

It all started way back in highschool when a girl met a boy. She was only 13 and he was 14 when they first introduced themselves to each other. Over the next two years, they slowly became friends, hanging out with each other within their friend group. However, eventually Abby started to notice how cute Zach was and decided to strike up a conversation over Instagram. She was sad to find out that he was planning to go away to the military immediately after graduation. Disappointed, she thought that there would be no way that it would work out, even if he was interested in her. But, feelings do not disappear so easy... Over the next several months, Abby couldn't shake the feelings she had, always trying to find ways to talk to Zach. Zach also started to develop feelings for Abby, but never let suspicion arise. At a Halloween party in 2020, Abby accidentally tripped and fell into Zach while trick or treating. All of their friends poked and teased it was on purpose, but it was truly an accident. But, Abby then kept falling into Zach as a joke for the rest of the night. After that night, both Zach and Abby had a feeling that they both liked each other. As luck would have it, Abby's 16th birthday was 5 days afterwards. Of course, Zach was invited to the party. The whole night they talked and teased each other. They would sit near each other, but not too close (picture below for proof 😊). They were confident that the feelings were mutual. But, then a past character would interrupt the story... DUN DUN DUNNN! This character was a past crush of Abby's from youthgroup who never showed interest back... until now. This character came to Abby and told her he was interested in pursing a relationship. Abby's thoughts were, "Wow. Really? Now you tell me? Great timing there bud." She was torn. She told this character that there is someone else she is interested in too, and would have to make a decision. Abby confronted Zach after class the next day. She confessed her feelings for him and he did as well. She told him of the decision she had to make, with the big factor being him leaving in 6 months for the military. She asked, "Would it ever work out? Would our relationship end when you leave?". He simply said, "I cannot say what will happen. But, only God knows. If we both trust Him, we will figure it out together." She told him that she would take a few days to make a decision. But, she couldn't shake the undeniable feeling that it was him. She told her family that night, "if there is one person who will push me closer to God and not away, its Zach." She immediately texted him to come talk to her. He managed to drive over quickly to hear what she had to say. He was convinced he was about to be rejected by her. But, Abby told him that she chooses him. So, on that fateful night of the 12th of November in 2020, their relationship began. After enjoying as much of the short 6 months they had together, they started long distance when Zach went to the United States Merchant Marine Academy. They did long distance ever since that moment, seeing each other briefly over short holiday breaks. Out of the 4 and half years they have been together, they have only spent close to a year together in person. While there was a lot of heartbreak and tears from distance, they never gave up on each other. Eventually, Zach popped the question to Abby in a Chapel at the Big Cedar Loge in Branson while on a trip at the Lakehouse on June 27th, 2024 after being apart for 6 months while Zach was at sea. It looks like all of the teasing Abby did to Zach about proposing worked. Abby and Zach's love for each other and trust in the Lord carried them through to where they are today. They look forward to the start of their new life together in Charleston as Zach pursues nuclear power school to become a Submarine Officer and Abby starts her career in nursing. Thank you being a part of our story, and celebrating this milestone with us.

Our Story

Journey Through Time

Parking

There are two parking lots associated with the church: You are welcome to park in either. Please be mindful that there the Church and School are right next to one another. Further directions below. Parking Lot off Monticello Rd: The church will be on your left hand side, please enter through the main doors on the front Parking Lot off Johnson Dr: The church will be on your right hand side, please enter through the main doors on the front

Order of the Mass

Upon entering the Church, you will receive a pamphlet that includes information regarding the process of the ceremony, the readings for the service, songs, and wedding party. Do not worry, we will make sure you will not be lost!

Seating

The first three front rows on either side of the center aisle will be reserved for the bridal party and immediate family. Otherwise, you can sit where you want in the other rows in the center aisle

Immediately After the ceremony

Once the ceremony ends, please make your way out of the church as bride and groom will have limited time for cleanup and photos. We will meet you at the reception before dinner!

History of the Venue

The Timber Barn was built in 2015 by Steve Frey and his son Donovan. The wood outside was donated by Fort Leavenworth when they cleared old growth for new housing. The white weathered wood was take from the Tin Barn you can see across the street from the venue, it was part of Vaughn's Apple Orchard that closed years ago.&nbsp;It is all held together with wooden pegs, with the mallets that were used to hammer them all in placed above the front door. The Chandelier was another Steven invention, hand crafted with wheels left on the farm from the early 1900s and apple pickers as the light covers. Up past that is a real cupula, the wheel on the east wall turns to open the windows and let hot air out. The Timber Barn stands on the hill where part of the battle of Bee Creek was fought, and many native artifacts have been found all over the property. The farm has been a working farm for decades, changing hands many times. One famous owner of the property was Mary Vineyard: Abraham Lincolns girlfriend before he married Mary Todd. He proposed to her several times and she turned down everyone. You can find her resting place in Weston and on her head stone it reads "Here lies Mary Vineyard who turned down Abraham Lincolns marriage proposal in 1837". You can see her original tobacco barn to the West.&nbsp;

As you enter onto the property, there will be an open gate on your right side. Helpful staff will be there to guide you to your parking spots and to the venue.

Send off

Attire

We encourage everyone to bring their cowboy boots for dancing!

Reception and Ceremony

Photos

Bride

Rachel Spencer

Tibernay Beal

Paige Henderson

Leah Cozzie

Lydia Cozzie

Groom

Isaac Alvarado

Keegan Solmos

Ely Blaisdell

Luke Spencer

Will Harvey

Wedding Party

What is the dress code?

Girls: Nice sundresses to semiformal dresses&nbsp;Guys: Slacks and dress shirts are encouraged, but feel free to wear a suit/blazer if you wish! (Military and service members are invited to wear their civilian attire or service dress/Class A uniforms)

Will there be Food?

Around 5:00 we plan on serving a buffet style dinner with dessert to follow!

Abigail & Zachary

Abigail & Zachary

A&Z

Wedding

1:00 PM–2:00 PM

Ceremony

4:30 PM–9:00 PM

Reception