Kara is not only my sister-in-law but also an incredible mom to two amazing boys. She is the yin to my brother’s yang, balancing him in the best ways and making their family so full of love and laughter. From the moment she joined our family, she fit right in, and I couldn’t be more grateful to have her in my life. I’m so lucky to have her by my side on this special day!

Eileen has been Liam’s biggest supporter, and it’s easy to see why—she’s funny, has the biggest heart, and is an absolute queen. Her kindness and loyalty shine in everything she does, and she always knows how to bring laughter and joy to any moment. I’m so grateful to have her as part of this journey and couldn’t imagine celebrating this day without her!

Randi and I were roommates in Virginia, where we both started our first teaching jobs, and you’d think spending all day and night together would get old—but nothing could be further from the truth. From 20-mile rucks around Washington D.C. to watching her survive on nothing but edamame for a week, every moment with her was an adventure. She’s been by my side through it all, and I couldn’t imagine this day without her!

Hannah has been my best friend since childhood, and I couldn’t imagine this day without her by my side. From endless beach trips to late nights playing neighborhood "Jailbreak," growing up just blocks apart made every day an adventure. Our shared love for Green Day and all things punk only strengthened our bond, and after all these years, she’s still the one who knows me best. I’m so grateful to have her as part of this special day!

Tyler is my bridesman, and simply put, he’s the best. We met in Georgia, and from day one, his down-to-earth nature, quick wit, and steadfast support made him one of the most trustworthy people I know. He’s been there for me through every high and low, and I couldn’t imagine this day without him by my side!

Kyley has been one of my closest friends since grade school, and we’ve been through it all together—sports, clubs, and even a high school pageant (where she was the beautiful princess on stage, and I was holding it down on the stage crew). She’s been an amazing friend through every chapter of life, and I’m so grateful to have her by my side on this special day!

Larissa is my maid of honor and my very best friend since middle school. We’ve been through so many obstacles and celebrations together, and through it all, she has been my rock—the person I can always count on, no matter what. Her heart is the biggest, her loyalty is unwavering, and she always knows how to lift me up when I need it most. I am beyond grateful to have her standing by my side on this special day!

Finally! I’ll have a brother who knows how to golf. From our post-round beers and conversations, not only did I know that I would be marrying into a phenomenal family, but I would be gaining an amazing brother in-law. Matt has meant so much to me and Abby throughout our relationship and we are extremely grateful to have him be a part of our special day.

Pat and I immediately bonded with each other over our love for Notre Dame football. But even without that, Pat was such a phenomenal friend that we built a lasting friendship throughout college and thereafter. This included trips across the world where we found out that an Indiana drivers license is not accepted as an ID on the Deutsche Bahn. Additionally, I have Pat to thank for bringing me to Savannah where I would eventually meet Abby!

I had to prepare Abby for the first time she met Drew. The best way to explain him was an animated friend that could talk to you for hours about anything (especially Irish history if you were interested). Honestly, Drew is one of the most genuine friends I know and have. I’m glad Drew will be standing up with me for the wedding because I know he’ll have something ridiculous to talk about.

Brian and I lived with each other for 3 out of the 4 years in college and probably would have continued had we not found our significant others. Whether it was hosting margarita parties in our dorm room, playing ping pong at 1am, or watching the Kardashian’s, it was always a good time with Brian. I can’t wait to have you standing up there with me on my wedding day.

Quinn was usually the brother that instigated fights between Connor, Aidan, and myself while growing up, but oddly enough was also the one that cared the most when it came to resolution. Hours before our cousins wedding this past year, Quinn, his son Brady, and I decided to play football outside. After an all out sprint down the sideline between Quinn and myself (which I won), he partially strained his hamstring. Rather than getting angry about it, we wrapped his leg up and he hobbled around on the dance floor two hours later and had a great time. I’m lucky to have him as a brother and I’m excited to hobble around the dance floor with him this October.

Usually the oldest sibling is the favorite of the parents, but Connor was nice enough to bestow that title upon myself (In reality, mom and dad just felt bad for all of the beatings I endured from Connor and Quinn). Aside from that, Connor has had such a large influence on my life and is often who I reach out to for career or life advice. He’s also a great contact to have if I want legitimate medical advice rather than the “take some Advil” I get from my dad. I’m extremely grateful to have him as a brother and a friend.

Aidan and I were forced to become acquaintances (dare I say friends) at a young age to stand against two older brothers. He essentially is living the life that I wanted while growing up. He grew tall enough to dunk, became a Zamboni driver in college, and is now working in Los Angeles in the film industry. In all seriousness though, I wouldn’t want or choose anyone else to be my best man and I’m fortunate to have him in my corner on the most important day in my life.

John has been there since day one (of college). He is about as close as I can get to having another brother. He was always the levelheaded mature friend that happily sipped on his redds apple ale as the rest of us made fools of ourselves. We’ve followed each other throughout our time in the Army and were fortunate enough to find our future spouses just weeks after moving to Savannah, Georgia. He was even there moments after Abby and I got engaged. We couldn’t think of a better person to be our minister and are ready to hear the best Princess Bride impression ever.