Please arrive by 4:30 to the Bolingbrook Golf Club! Cocktail hours starts at 5pm.

Agape & Mark

August 31, 2024 • Naperville, IL

Please arrive by 4:30 to the Bolingbrook Golf Club! Cocktail hours starts at 5pm.

Agape & Mark

August 31, 2024 • Naperville, IL

FAQ

Wedding Ceremony?

We are extremely excited to celebrate this day with our close family members and friends. Due to this wish, we have a limited guest list that are invited to the ceremony itself, which we are aiming to be personal with our loved ones! If stated specifically on your invitation, please come and celebrate with us during the cocktail hour and reception! We thank you for understanding, and look forwarding to celebrating with you!

How do I get in touch with you?

Please text us with your questions! Agape: 815-919-0054 Mark: 708-252-6514

How do I RSVP?

There are a few ways, all are valid: 1. Please use the online RSVP option on our wedding site here! (PREFERRED METHOD) 2. Please text Agape or Mark whether or not you will be attending. 3. Return the RSVP card included in your invitation if you received one.

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June 15, 2024

What is the dress code?

Official answer: Cocktail Attire Fun answer: We encourage you to wear "That one outfit I never get a chance to wear!" Do you have a dress, suit, or outfit that you'd love to show off but can never find the right occasion to do so? Here's your chance :) Our official colors fall in the lavender-sage-silver spectrum, but wear what makes you happy! Our only request is ladies, please no white!

Are children invited? Can I bring a plus one?

While we may have some immediate family's children present, we kindly ask our guests to understand that not all children are invited. As much as we adore your little ones, we encourage everyone to see this as a night off to yourself or you and your date! Please do not bring a plus one. Only individuals specifically listed on the invitations are invited.

What time should I arrive to the ceremony?

Please arrive at least 15 minutes prior to the ceremony to get settled! If you are interested in touring the museums on the small campus the chapel is located in, feel free to come early :)

Indoors, outdoors?

The ceremony, cocktail hour, and reception all take place indoors! The cocktail and reception venue have an outside balcony/veranda that everyone is welcome to wander about on.

Transportation?

The ceremony venue (chapel) and the reception venue (banquet hall) are a 15 minute local drive from each other. We request all guests to utilize their own transportation or agencies such as Uber or Lyft. If you are friends from out of state and would prefer a more personalized transportation plan, let Mark or Agape know and we'll work to figure it out! Likely, we'll group you up!

Parking?

The wedding ceremony chapel has multiple parking sites. 1. There is a visitor guest lot for the Naper Settlement down the road. You will need to take a short walk to get onto museum/chapel grounds. Address: 2. Across the street from the chapel is a government building with free public parking. Address: 3. Street parking along the residential street

What food and drink are provided?

Come hungry! Light hors d'oeuvres will be served at cocktail hour, followed by a three course plated dinner and dessert. There will be an open bar, so please come and enjoy!

I have dietary restrictions/allergies!

Please shoot Agape or Mark a message regarding any questions/concerns about your dietary needs and we'll do our best to help accommodate!

Where do I stay?

Please check out our Accomodations tab! We've got a couple hotels with room blocks with deals for staying the nights of our wedding.

Can I take pictures/video record?

We understand everyone has a varied perspective on electronics at a wedding, and we will not demand you to keep your phone turned off the entire time either. Please take photos and videos of what you'd like, but we simply ask to make sure you take some time to enjoy the celebrations away from the screen for a little bit! We will have a videographer present, so please do not feel pressured to immortalize the entire event on facebook live :) Also, please stay seated as appropriate during the wedding ceremony and limit any need to wander around to record/take pictures. Our photographer/videographer will be doing their job, so please let them have the room they require!

Wedding Day Itinerary

The staple events (Ceremony, cocktail, reception) are posted on this website. All other times are free for you to do as you please!

What am I expected to do between the ceremony and the reception?

We thank you for understanding that because it's such an important day, we as the bride and groom want to take our time savoring in every moment between us. With that, Naperville and Bolingbrook have an abundance of things to do!! Please see the THINGS TO DO tab for just a small selection of activity recommendations. The museum grounds are open until 4PM. Downtown Naperville and the Riverwalk are literally walking distance away from the chapel. Have fun!