When should I RSVP By?
**RSVP date has been extended**
To give us time to finalize details, please RSVP by April 17th, as this is our final deadline. Thank you for your cooperation ❤️
What happens if I missed the RSVP deadline?
Unfortunately, due to the nature of the strict deadline, there will not be a seat reserved in your name. In order to finalize all plans, we need a final count by April 17th latest. If you need to change your RSVP, please reach out to us directly, thank you.
Are Children Allowed?
Although we would enjoy having children attend our wedding, we are requesting an adult only event due to financial circumstances.
When should I arrive to the church?
Please make sure you are at the church no later than 12:45, as the ceremony will begin promptly at 1 pm.
How will parking work for both the church and restaurant?
Both locations have very large parking lots that accompany hundreds of cars. No paid parking!
Will any portion of the event be outdoors?
The ceremony will be indoors, as well as the reception following it. However, there is a beautifully decorated patio outside of the Blue Mermaid which is equipped with fire pits and chairs; if you want some fresh air.
What is the dress code?
We are asking for formal attire, please. However, not all men need to wear a suit and tie! Dress shirts and nice pants are completely acceptable (if you don’t have a suit, don’t worry about it)! As for dresses/skirts, we ask that they are closer to knee or below in length, as that’s what’s appropriate for the Catholic Church.
Am I allowed to bring a plus one?
If you are able to bring a plus one, we have stated so on your invitation. Your invitation will say "Mr./Ms. -- & Guest". Otherwise, we apologize for being unable to provide that extra spot for you.
What dietary restrictions will be taken into account?
Since the bride herself is gluten-intolerant, there are many gluten-sensitive options on the entire menu. For vegans, we have specially chosen a delicious entrée and an appetizer that all will enjoy. We handcrafted our menu, so there are also multiple vegetarian/pescatarian options as well! The menu can be found below.
What if I have abnormal food allergies not listed on the menu?
Please state so on your RSVP, and we will make sure to let the chef know.
Will there be an open bar?
No, we will be having a cash bar (meaning that everyone pays for themselves) due to limited financial abilities. However, the bar will have many unique and handpicked beers on draft and exquisite cocktails!
where should we put gifts and cards?
Firstly, thank you for being so generous! We will have a table at our reception for small gifts and cards. However, if you feel that your gift will be too large to bring, you can always reach out to either of us and we can make arrangements (i.e shipping or delivery).
how can we contact you?
You can reach the bride at (603)-395-6068 OR
you can reach the groom at (978)-770-8871
*Texts are best, because we are so busy!
around what time will the reception end?
Since we don't want to keep the restaurant open too long, we are aiming to be finished around 9 pm latest. We are aware that some families have a much longer drive than others, so we want everyone to get home promptly and safely!
When does cocktail hour begin?
Cocktail hour will begin at 3pm and run until around 4 pm. As soon as you arrive at the restaurant, hors d'oeuvres and drinks will be served.
When am I allowed to take photos?
During the ceremony, we are asking that no phones or cameras are present - we have a great photographer! However, during the reception, YES PLEASE! We will have a QR code for an app that you can upload any photos taken that evening into a large digital album. Also, please feel free to send as many pictures to the bride and groom directly!
Can I post the event on social media?
Sure, but we ask that we are the first to announce anything online. Thank you for your cooperation :)