Mallard Oaks Farm

Wedding Day

Ceremony

Reception

Rehearsal Dinner

Spring

Our Wedding

「 ✦ Alexa's Version ✦ 」

I vividly remember when Wesley came into my life in December 2022. After our first hangout, I told my friend Blake that Wesley would be a part of my life forever. Little did I know that he would become the man I marry.After what felt like five long—and I mean long—months, Wesley asked me to be his girlfriend in the middle of the interstate in Atlanta during rush hour! From that moment on, our relationship continued to grow every day.The moment I knew I was going to marry Wesley was the moment I realized I was in love. We were at Engage, a student ministry at JSU, where Wesley was part of the worship band. As I watched him on stage that night, something clicked within me. I understood what I meant all those months ago when I said he would be in my life forever—he would be my husband.Throughout our year together, we faced some trials, but we also experienced some of the best moments of my life. One of my favorites was our first trip together in December 2023, when we traveled to Mobile to visit my family. He handled meeting my dad’s side like a champ! During that trip, I showed him around one of my favorite cities, we built gingerbread houses, and we enjoyed quality time with family. It was then that I got a glimpse of the beautiful future we could have together.As our relationship deepened, so did our conversations about marriage and our dreams for the future. Once I knew Wesley wanted to marry me, I couldn’t help but ask him every day if that day was "the day." Fast forward to April, when I was attending a close friend’s wedding. When it came time for the bouquet toss, I remember praying to God: "Okay, God. I know you didn’t bless me in the height department, but I’m begging you to give me the legs of every NBA player combined right now." Miraculously, I caught the bouquet, and I knew it was just a matter of time.Less than a month later, on May 11th, I found myself staring down at the love of my life as he got down on one knee with the most beautiful ring I had ever seen. But what truly outshined it was his smile—the same smile I fell in love with, now asking me to marry him. Spoiler alert: I said yes!The summer flew by in a blur as we basked in our love, but one thing felt off: May 10th, 2025, seemed like an eternity to wait. So we didn’t. On August 2nd, I married my best friend. We got dressed up, went to the public library, and shared our marriage in a moment that was just between us and God. It was the best day of my life. We then got to celebrated with Blake, who had been there to see our relationship flourish.Now, I cannot wait to celebrate with all of you and publicly proclaim my love for Wesley.To my Wesley, I love you more.

「 ✦ Wesley's Version ✦ 」

We first met at the end of 2022, and from that very moment, I sensed a connection. Her personality—so collected and down to earth—along with her humor, voice, and the wonderful friends she surrounded herself with, told me we would be part of each other’s lives for a long time. As we spent more time together, my feelings began to deepen. Her understanding nature, infectious laughter, beauty, interests, and drive drew me in more and more.It wasn’t until May 2023, at the end of a memorable date at the aquarium in Atlanta, that we made it official and became boyfriend and girlfriend. Over the next year, I witnessed the incredible love and care that Alexa pours into everything she holds dear. She is a hard worker, a loving partner, and possesses a unique and amazing personality that continues to impress me at every turn.I knew, without a doubt, that she was the woman I wanted to marry and spend eternity with. Exactly one year after we became a couple, just before one of the best worship concerts ever, I got down on one knee, looked into her beautiful eyes, and asked her if she would do me the absolute honor of marrying me. And she said yes! The love of my life agreed to the most important question I’ve ever asked.But our story didn’t stop there. Our love for each other has only grown stronger with each passing day. There is infinite room for our love to expand, and my heart ignites more passionately for her every morning. We set the date for May 10th, 2025, the day I would take her as my bride. However, our love was so intense that we knew we couldn’t wait. So, on August 2nd, 2024, we got married.May 10th will always be our wedding date—a celebration so grand that it will be a day no one will forget. But our love deserved the covenant of marriage as soon as possible. She is my beautiful wife, and I have the honor of being her husband. I can hold her close and call her mine for all my days. I cannot wait to recognize and celebrate this incredible fact on our big day, May 10th, 2025.

Our Story

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Alexa and Jacqueline became inseparable friends in middle school, sharing everything from extracurricular activities to the same car and even pets—both having a pet named Lucy. With the same middle name, it felt as if fate had intertwined their lives in a truly special way. They’ve always been each other’s biggest supporters, cheering each other on through life’s ups and downs.

Jacqueline has been Alexa's rock, providing unwavering support and laughter during even the toughest times.  As Alexa prepares to walk down the aisle, she knows she can’t imagine saying "I do" without her Jac by her side. Together, they’ve created memories that will last a lifetime, and their friendship is a beautiful reminder of the love and loyalty that true friendship brings.

Jacqueline Goodwin

Wesley and Andy first crossed paths in 2021 at a college ministry event at JSU. Their friendship truly blossomed when Andy was invited to join a band for another ministry where Wesley was actively involved. This marked the beginning of what would become an unbreakable bond between them.

Wesley quickly realized that Andy is someone he can always count on—a friend who not only brings fun and laughter but also genuine support. As they navigated life together, it became clear that Andy would be his best friend and best man for years to come.

In Wesley’s worship band, Andy shines as an acoustic guitarist and one of the lead vocalists, contributing his incredible voice and heartfelt passion to their music. His authentic worship style elevates the band’s ministry, creating an atmosphere that resonates deeply with everyone involved. As their friendship continues to grow, Wesley knows he has found a lifelong companion in Andy, and he couldn’t be more grateful

Andy Gardner 

Alexa and Vanessa met while attending JSU, where they bonded over their shared love for playing the flute and navigating classes together. Initially, their friendship blossomed through rehearsals and classes, but it was during a memorable trip in January 2023 that they truly connected on a deeper level. The experiences they shared during that trip brought them closer than ever, creating memories that would last a lifetime.

Since then, Vanessa has become not only Alexa’s "mom away from home," providing guidance and support during challenging times, but also one of her closest friends. From late-night chats to spontaneous outings, their bond has grown stronger with each passing day. Vanessa's kindness, humor, and unwavering support have made a significant impact on Alexa's life, helping her navigate the ups and downs of college.

As Alexa prepares to celebrate this momentous occasion, she is filled with joy and gratitude to have Vanessa by her side. Sharing this special day with someone who has been such an important part of her journey makes it all the more meaningful.

Vanessa Marcum

Hunter is Wesley’s go-to guy for musical ideas and song creation. Together, they have a remarkable synergy that allows them to craft amazing music, whether it’s on the fly or during focused songwriting sessions. Wesley truly admires Hunter’s dry yet natural sense of humor, along with his steadfast work ethic and deep love for Jesus.

As an intelligent and resourceful individual, Hunter connects with Wesley instantly, especially when they dive into their music. His ability to bring creativity and structure to their collaborative efforts is invaluable. In addition to playing keys, Hunter serves as the Music Director for Wesley’s worship band, where his organizational skills and musical insight play a crucial role. Wesley sees Hunter as the glue that holds everything together, ensuring that their worship experience is both cohesive and inspiring.



Hunter Rogerson 

Reana and Alexa have been inseparable their entire lives. From childhood adventures to teenage escapades, their bond has only grown stronger over the years. Although Alexa may have played the role of the annoying younger cousin at times, the truth is that they have grown up side by side, navigating life’s challenges and celebrating each other’s successes.

For Alexa, Reana has always been more than just a cousin; she’s a sister at heart. Their shared memories—whether it’s family gatherings filled with laughter, late-night talks, or spontaneous road trips—have woven a beautiful tapestry of friendship and love. As they prepare to take on this special day together, both are filled with excitement and joy, knowing that their lifelong connection will make this moment even more unforgettable.

Reana Clark 

Wesley and Eli first met at a youth camp where Wesley was invited to play music. After the event, Eli generously offered to drive Wesley home, and during the ride, they bonded over their shared passion for metal bands, enthusiastically trading recommendations and favorite tracks. It was in that moment that they knew they would become great friends.

Their friendship is built on a solid foundation of similar tastes in music, a shared sense of humor, and, most importantly, a deep love for God. These common threads have woven a rich tapestry of connection between them. Eli plays bass in Wesley’s worship band, where they come together not only to create music but also to worship and praise their Lord and Savior.

As they continue to grow together in faith and friendship, Wesley is grateful for the unique bond they share, knowing that it enriches both their lives in countless ways.


Eli McCormick

Elizabeth and Alexa first crossed paths at a JSU football game in 2021, where an instant connection blossomed into a cherished friendship. Elizabeth quickly became Alexa’s "Rina friend," and little did Alexa know just how much of a shining light Elizabeth would become in her life.

In 2022, Elizabeth welcomed Alexa into her sorority as her little in SAO, and from that moment on, their bond deepened in ways they never imagined. They shared countless adventures, laughter, and late-night talks, creating memories that will last a lifetime. Alexa was honored to stand by Elizabeth’s side as she married the love of her life in April, a beautiful moment that highlighted their strong friendship.

Now, as Alexa prepares for her own special day, she is filled with joy knowing that Elizabeth will be right there with her, ready to support and celebrate this next chapter in her life. Their journey together is a testament to the power of friendship, and they can’t wait to make more unforgettable memories.

Elizabeth Williams 

Skyler and Wesley share an incredible friendship built on a strong foundation of their love for God, a mutual appreciation for music, and unwavering support for one another. They are each other’s hype men, always ready to lift each other up in any situation and celebrate each other’s successes.

Wesley deeply admires Skyler’s wisdom and is consistently impressed by his remarkable drumming skills. One of Wesley’s favorite memories with Skyler was during a drive to a youth camp, where they spent the journey listening to worship music and discussing God’s faithfulness. Those heartfelt conversations only strengthened their bond.

As the drummer for Wesley’s worship band, Skyler plays a crucial role in keeping the rhythm tight while delivering impressive fills that enhance their worship experience. Together, they create an atmosphere of praise, giving glory to God and sharing their passion for music and faith.


Skyler Felton

Sierra and Alexa grew close toward the end of their college journeys, forming an instant connection that blossomed into a beautiful friendship. From shared giggles at concerts to countless lunch dates, their bond deepened as they navigated the challenges of their degrees together.

They’ve created unforgettable memories traveling and performing a recital side by side, each experience strengthening their friendship even more. Through laughter and now long distance conversations , Alexa has come to realize just how fortunate she is to have someone as supportive and inspiring as Sierra by her side. As they celebrate this special day, Alexa knows that their friendship is a cherished part of her life, and she couldn’t imagine this moment without Sierra there to share it.

Sierra Tolhurst 

Wesley and Logan met in 2020 at a college ministry at JSU, and it was Logan who first reached out to Wesley about playing at youth events with her and her friends. It’s truly thanks to her initiative that Wesley has been blessed with the incredible friendships he enjoys today.

Wesley deeply values Logan’s faithfulness, not only as a friend but especially as a worship leader. Her commitment to serving others and uplifting those around her is inspiring. One of Wesley’s favorite memories with Logan was the adventure they shared with Hunter on the way home from a youth camp. When they found themselves dealing with a flat tire, they made the best of the situation by keeping each other’s spirits high and getting to know one another more deeply during the wait.

In Wesley’s worship band, Logan plays acoustic guitar and lends her voice as one of the vocalists, bringing a unique and incredible sound, along with a genuine spirit of worship for their Savior. Together, they create an atmosphere that truly glorifies God, and Wesley feels grateful to have her by his side in ministry.

Logan Webber 

Caitlyn and Alexa became friends through Wesley, and their bond has only grown stronger since then. Caitlyn is soon to marry Andy Gardner, Wesley’s best man, and the couples have spent countless joyful moments together, deepening their friendships and their faith in God.

Throughout their time together, Alexa has always dreamed of having a friend like Caitlyn—someone who shares her values and uplifts her spirit. Now, as she prepares for her special day, Alexa is filled with gratitude to have Caitlyn by her side. Their friendship is a beautiful testament to the power of connection, and Alexa couldn’t imagine celebrating this milestone without Caitlyn’s support and love.

Caitlyn Johnson 

Wesley and Cade first crossed paths when Wesley accepted the call to worship ministry. Now, they work together at Eastaboga Baptist Church, where Wesley leads the youth in worship, and Cade provides invaluable guidance and support through biblical advice and wisdom.

Wesley greatly admires Cade’s abundant biblical knowledge, his compassionate heart, and his incredible love for God. Cade truly radiates the essence of Jesus, inspiring those around him with his faith and dedication. Wesley feels blessed to have the opportunity to work alongside Cade, learning from him as they navigate their journey in ministry together. Their partnership not only enhances Wesley’s leadership but also deepens his understanding of faith and service.

Cade Williamson 

Emma is Wesley's sister, and when Alexa learned about her, she couldn't contain her excitement. Their bond truly blossomed during a spontaneous trip to Nashville, where they had the chance to get to know each other on a deeper level. Since that adventure, Alexa has grown to love and cherish Emma, appreciating her warmth and infectious spirit.

As the wedding day approaches, Alexa is thrilled to have another sister by her side. The connection they've formed means the world to her, and she looks forward to sharing this special moment with Emma, celebrating not just their families coming together but also the beautiful friendship they’ve built along the way.

Emma Cline 

Charlie is Wesley’s stepdad, and Wesley has always looked up to him with the utmost love and respect. Charlie possesses incredible wisdom, not only in everyday life but, most importantly, in matters of faith. Wesley deeply values the biblical insights and guidance that Charlie brings to their conversations, which have greatly influenced his spiritual journey.

Wesley admires and appreciates Charlie for his unwavering love, genuine care, and sincere interest in Wesley’s well-being and future. Charlie embodies the qualities of a true role model—he is a leader, a mentor, and a steadfast presence in Wesley's life.

As Wesley reflects on their relationship, he is filled with gratitude for the impact Charlie has had on him. Love you, Charlie!

Charlie Cline 

Sammi has always been like a little sister to Alexa. As Jacqueline’s sister, she has been a constant presence in Alexa’s life, and they have spent countless hours together, creating cherished memories. From family gatherings to fun outings, Alexa has always looked out for Samantha, nurturing their bond with love and care.

As the big day approaches, Alexa is filled with excitement to share this special moment with Sammi. Having her by her side not only brings joy but also a sense of completeness, as they celebrate their unique sisterly connection. Alexa couldn’t imagine this day without Sammi’s support and presence, making it all the more meaningful.

Samantha Goodwin

Wesley and Blake first met through Alexa, one of Lex’s best friends, which paved the way for a strong bond between the two. They’ve spent countless car rides together, taking the time to get to know each other while venting about school, sharing rants about anything on their minds, and laughing until their sides hurt.

Blake has become an integral part of both Wesley and Alexa’s lives, serving as a supporter, mentor, and attentive listener. His presence has enriched their friendship, providing wisdom and encouragement whenever it’s needed.

One of Wesley’s favorite memories with Blake is their road trip to a Scottsboro football game, where they filled the car with laughter, jokes, and endless conversation. That ride was a testament to their camaraderie, showcasing the fun and genuine connection they share. Wesley feels grateful to have Blake in his life, knowing he can always count on him for support and good times.

Blake Gartman

Audrey and Alexa are cousins who have grown close over the years, developing a deep bond filled with love and laughter. Despite Audrey’s playful insistence that Alexa isn’t “cool,” their connection remains strong, and they share countless cherished memories together.

As the big day approaches, Alexa is filled with excitement to have Audrey by her side. Knowing that her cousin will be there to support her makes the occasion even more special, and she can’t wait to celebrate this momentous day together. Their unique relationship is a reminder of the joy and warmth that family brings.

Audrey Godwin

Wesley and Jerdon are brothers, but their bond goes far beyond mere sibling ties. Jerdon is someone whom Wesley deeply admires—a true role model and an example of the person Wesley aspires to be. Whether it’s Jerdon’s musical talent, his sense of humor, or his maturity and responsibility, Wesley looks up to him in countless ways.

Throughout their school years, the two were inseparable, often sharing extracurricular activities like band and soccer. These experiences only strengthened their connection and allowed Wesley to learn from Jerdon’s example every day.

One of Wesley’s favorite memories will always be the car rides they spent together, blasting their favorite music and sharing laughs. Those moments of camaraderie and joy are a testament to the special bond they share, and as they continue their journey together, Wesley is grateful to have Jerdon by his side as both a brother and a friend.

Alexa & Wesley

Alexa & Wesley

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