Where do I RSVP?
Please RSVP online. You can find the RSVP link here on our website!
What date should I RSVP by?
Please RSVP by February 28th, 2025.
Am I allowed to bring a plus one?
Unless your invite states otherwise, you are not allowed a plus one.
Am I allowed to bring my children?
All children in attendance must be 10 or older, and each child counts as a plus one. Unless you are granted a plus one on the invite, we kindly ask you find a babysitter for the night.
Am I allowed to bring my pet?
No, the venue does not allow dogs, cats, or any other animals. Service animals are welcome only if they are necessary for your movement throughout the event.
Where can I find the wedding registry?
The link to the registry is located on this website under the "Registry" tab.
Where should we bring/send our wedding gift?
You can bring your much appreciated gifts to the wedding or have it shipped to our home.
What is the dress code?
Semi-formal.
For men, ties aren't required, nor are matching suit pieces. Collared shirts are encouraged. Please, no jeans.
For those wearing dresses, something in a midi-length is perfect, though you're also welcome to experiment with jumpsuits, rompers, and separates. Again, no jeans.
Are there any colors or styles you'd prefer me to wear?
If you are wearing an abundance of white, you will be asked to leave. Otherwise, feel free to wear something you will feel comfortable in.
Will your wedding be indoors or outdoors?
The ceremony and reception will be indoors, though there will be a cocktail hour outside as the reception is set up.
Is the ceremony and reception at the same place?
Yes. Both the ceremony and reception are located at the Farmhouse.
Is there parking available near your wedding venue(s)?
There will be ample parking at the venue.
Will there be a shuttle to and/or from the hotel(s)?
No. Although, if you can not drive to the venue, we can see if another guest might be willing to carpool. Please reach out to us if this is the case.
Have you reserved blocks of rooms at one or more hotels?
No. We will not be providing overnight accommodations for guest. We have provided some recommended hotels/Airbnbs in the nearby area here on our website along with things to do in the area. If you have any questions, comments, or concerns about overnight accommodations, please reach out to us.
What time should I arrive at your wedding ceremony?
The ceremony will start at 4 PM. Please arrive at 3:30 PM. A timeline for the evening is located on our homepage.
What type of food will be served at your wedding?
When you RSVP you will choose your food preferences and list any allergies you may have.
Will there be an open bar?
There will be complementary beer and wine during the reception. Specialty drinks will be available for purchase.
Will there be a time gap between your wedding ceremony and reception?
Yes. There will be a small time gap between the ceremony and reception. During this time, there will be yard games, drinks, and snacks served while the bride an groom take post-ceremony pictures.
Am I allowed to take photos at your wedding?
Photos are allowed throughout the night EXECPT during the ceremony itself.
What is your wedding hashtag?
#HappyDetterDay
Will you be live streaming your wedding?
Yes. We will have a live stream. If you are interested in the livestream, please let us know and we would be happy to send it over.
Where will wedding updates be posted?
When you RSVP, we will ask for your email address for reminders/updates about the celebration. We will also make sure to post updates on the website.
I have more questions about your wedding, who can I contact?
You can contact the couple, Alexis (979-219-6745) or Derek (832-302-7036) through March. Starting April 1, you can contact Stephanie DeGraaff (512-571-9095) for any questions you may have.