To our friends and family: We're so excited to celebrate our wedding with you. Find all the details you need to know about our big day here. We can't wait to share our special day with you.
What time should guests arrive?
We kindly ask our guests to arrive by 3:30pm to ensure you are seated and ready for the ceremony, which will begin promptly at 4pm.
Are special dietary accommodations available?
Our reception will feature a buffet-style dinner. Vegan and vegetarian plated entrées are available by request—please indicate any dietary needs in your RSVP so we can plan accordingly. For guests with food allergies, we are happy to provide safe meal accommodations. Kindly list any allergies on your RSVP so we may prepare accordingly.
Can I bring a plus one?
Due to a limited guest count and the desire to create an intimate celebration between close friends & family, we are only accommodating those guests formally invited on your wedding invitation. Once you have RSVP'd through the website, you will see how many seats have been reserved for you. If you have received a plus one, their name (or GUEST) will appear under your name when you RSVP on the website. If your RSVP says GUEST - please make sure to fill in your guest's name before submitting your RSVP. Thank you for understanding!
Are children allowed at the wedding?
While we adore all children, we regret that we can only invite children from our immediate families due to venue capacity. We appreciate your understanding.
Is the ceremony indoors or outdoors?
The ceremony will be outdoors with an indoor backup location in case of inclement weather. Cocktail hour will be held outdoors. The reception will be outdoors under a grand tent with the DJ being indoors in the ballroom space for dancing and late-night fun.
Will there be alcohol at the wedding?
Absolutely! We believe in celebrating love with a little liquid joy. Our open bar will be stocked with all your favorites, from cocktails to beer and wine. Just remember, it's a wedding, not a frat party—so drink responsibly and save the keg stands for another time! 🍸🍷🍻
Where can I stay after the event?
We have reserved room blocks at DoubleTree Resort By Hilton Lancaster. There will be a shuttle service picking/dropping guests off to/from the hotel. For more information, please view the Hotel Blocks tab.
What should I do if I need to change my RSVP?
You can change your RSVP via our wedding website - or you can contact us at 717-598-8127 if you need further assistance! Please try to let us know by 7/7/2026 at the latest if any unforeseen circumstances come up.
Where are you registered?
We are registered through the Knot: https://www.theknot.com/us/alexis-lonsinger-and-sami-phelps-2026-08-14/registry