Your invitation will be made out to the specific people invited to the wedding. Please do not ask if you can bring one.
Can children come to the wedding?
We love kids, however, our wedding will be adults only and only the people listed on the invitation will be included.
What is the dress code?
Please wear cocktail attire and anything, but white or dusty blue as these colors will be worn by the bridal party.
What happens if I don't RSVP in time?
If you do not RSVP by the date listed on the invitation, we will be marking you as not attending. We will need to give our vendors a headcount in a timely manner.
Who should I contact the week of the wedding if I have questions?
You can call or text Cindy Kilkenny (MOB) 201-819-4844. :)
When does the ceremony begin and where is it?
The ceremony begins at 3:00pm in St.Paul's RC Church in Ramsey (200 Wyckoff Ave, Ramsey, NJ 07446).
Who should I address a check to?
Please address any checks to Alexandra Kilkenny and Matthew Oslislo. :)
What should we do in between the ceremony and cocktail hour?
The ceremony should end before 4 or at 4. Guests can take this time to check in to their hotel room or go to anything on the "Things To Do" tab!
Where should I park at the ceremony and the reception (if driving)?
There should be more than enough spaces at the church and the reception as both have big lots. :)
How do I get from St. Paul's Church to the Tides Estate?
You will need to drive and it will take about 20 minutes from the church to the Tides if you're not stopping at one of the hotels first.
Is there an open bar?
Yes, no need to buy drinks on 7/11/25! Let's have a time!