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Alyssa & Josh

October 24, 2026 • Rhinebeck, NY
189 Days To Go!

Alyssa & Josh

October 24, 2026 • Rhinebeck, NY
189 Days To Go!

Q + A

How do I RSVP?

A dedicated RSVP page will be added to our website when invitations are sent; please RSVP there as soon as possible.

How do I get to the venue?

Getting to Beekman Arms & Delamater Inn: Address: Beekman Arms & Delamater Inn 6387 Mill Street Rhinebeck, NY 12572 🚗 By Car From New York City (approx. 2 hours): Take the New York State Thruway (I-87 North) toward Albany; Take Exit 18 (New Paltz); After the toll, follow signs for Route 299 East; Continue on Route 299, then follow signs for Route 9W North; Cross the Mid-Hudson Bridge into Rhinebeck; Follow Route 9 North into the village; Turn right onto Mill Street — the Beekman Arms & Delamater Inn is located in the center of town From Albany (approx. 1 hour): Take I-87 South to Exit 20 (Saugerties); Follow Route 212 East, then Route 9W South; Turn left onto Route 199 East and cross the Kingston-Rhinecliff Bridge; Follow Route 9 South into Rhinebeck; Turn left onto Mill Street 🚆 By Train Take Amtrak to the Rhinecliff Station The station is about 5 miles from the inn Taxis and ride-share services are available at the station The drive to the inn takes approximately 10 minutes ✈️ By Air The nearest major airports are Albany International Airport (ALB) and Stewart International Airport (SWF) Both are about 1–1.5 hours away by car

Is there parking?

There is a small lot behind the main inn and plenty of street parking. Please refer to local signage. If you have any parking questions, the hotel staff is happy to assist.

Where should I stay?

We have reserved a block of rooms right on site for you! Please see the travel page for more details.

When should I book my room?

As soon as possible! The group rate has been reserved for us until June 30, 2026. Please make sure to reserve your trip before then!

Will the ceremony be indoors or outdoors?

Weather permitting, the ceremony will take place outdoors. Please plan accordingly.

What should I wear?

The dress code is formal-ish. We suggest suits, ties, cocktail dresses, or floor-length gowns — dress to impress, but feel comfortable celebrating with us!

What kind of shoes should I wear?

The ceremony space includes grass, so we recommend appropriate footwear. Block heels, wedges, flats, or dressy sandals are great options.

Are plus ones allowed?

The name of every guest invited to attend will be listed on your Save-The-Date and formal Wedding Invitation. Unfortunately, due to venue restrictions, no additional guests can be accommodated.

Are children invited?

While we love your little ones, this will be an adults-only celebration. We hope this gives everyone the chance to relax and enjoy the evening.

As this is the oldest inn in America, it was built before the town was incorporated. Because of this, the inn is spread out over a few blocks. Please see the map below to familiarize yourself with the property.

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