Our wedding is semi-formal with a rustic summer vibe. Think dressy but comfortable: sundresses or midi dresses for women; sport coats or dress shirts with slacks for men—ties optional. Light, breathable fabrics and neutral/earthy tones (cream, white accents welcome) work well for the semi-outdoor setting. Please avoid wearing all-white so the couple stands out. If you have specific accessibility or weather concerns, let us know.

Your presence is the greatest gift we could ask for. As we are combining two households, we already have many typical items. If you wish to give, a monetary contribution toward home renovations or our honeymoon would be greatly appreciated.

We’re grateful to our out-of-town guests. For hotel stays, Thief River Falls offers several convenient options—please see the Travel page for our recommended hotels and booking details. If you prefer to bring an RV or an ice castle, there are nearby campgrounds and yard sites available; contact us if you’d like specific recommendations or help coordinating a spot.

Children are absolutely welcome! You know your child best—if they can sit quietly for the ceremony, we would love to have them be a part of our special day. If you prefer to make alternative arrangements, we’d still love for them to join the reception, where we’ll have games and activities to keep everyone entertained.

BBQ pulled chicken, desserts, and a variety of sides will be provided—no need to bring anything. If you’d like to contribute, a salad or vegetable side to share is welcome; please label any dishes that contain common allergens (nuts, dairy, gluten). If you plan to bring something, let us know ahead of time so we can coordinate portions.

Yes — there will be a cash bar available during the reception. Please drink responsibly; arrange a sober ride if needed. If you require non-alcoholic options, we’ll have those available as well.