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Our Wedding

Ben and Amanda's story began with a leap of faith and a touch of old-fashioned romance. In June of 2018, they were set up on a blind date — no texting, no small talk beforehand, just a single photo of each other and a map. Ben, determined to keep things traditional, insisted they wait to speak until they met in person. The day before their date, Amanda received a map from her friend, carefully crafted by Ben, with an "X" marking the spot where he would be waiting. Nervously, Amanda made her way to Curtis Hixon Park in Tampa, stepping far outside her comfort zone in search of a complete stranger. As she zoomed in on the map and scanned the park, she spotted someone who looked like Ben standing on the Riverwalk — but he was wearing gym clothes! For a moment, she considered turning around, thinking he must have come straight from a workout. (Funny enough, their friends had neglected to clarify what "casual attire" really meant!) Despite the unconventional first impression, their date went off without a hitch. As they made their way to the Sail Pavilion, the skies opened up, drenching them in an unexpected downpour — but not even the rain could dampen their connection. That evening marked the beginning of an adventure that would span years and miles, with countless trips between Sarasota and Tampa, and journeys around the world. Ben's adventurous spirit soon became contagious, opening Amanda up to a life she never imagined. In October of 2023, under the mesmerizing Northern Lights in Iceland, Ben made Amanda's dreams come true. After five unforgettable years, he got down on one knee and asked her the question she had been patiently waiting for. From a blind date to a lifetime of adventure, their story is a testament to taking chances and embracing the unexpected. They can’t wait to begin this next chapter together, surrounded by the people they love most.

Our Story

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Amanda and Britney met in 2009 when they were matched as Big and Little in Tri Delta. While they didn’t know it then, God knew Amanda would need Britney’s love and guidance—not just in college, but every day after. Amanda still calls her “Big,” a nod to their roots. Britney has always been the calm Amanda needed, and Amanda couldn’t imagine her big day without her Big by her side.

Britney Semago

Ben and Allen have known each other since childhood—their parents were college friends, and their dads started a business together. They reconnected in their twenties and have been inseparable ever since.

Ben now lives next door to Allen, and they even built a path between their homes. Amanda and Allen’s wife, Ashley, joke that the guys text morning and night. Ben couldn’t imagine this day without his lifelong friend by his side.

Allen McIntyre

Wedding Party

We know weddings come with lots of questions, so we’ve put together this handy Q&amp;A to help make your experience as smooth as possible. If there’s anything we missed, feel free to reach out! What should I wear?The dress code for our wedding is formal. We want you to feel comfortable and fabulous while celebrating with us. Please no white/ivory dresses.What time should I arrive?The ceremony will begin promptly at 2 pm so we recommend arriving at 1:30-1:45 pm to find your seat and get settled.What happens between the ceremony and reception?We have a little "Catholic gap" between the ceremony and reception, so we’ve put together a list of fun things to do nearby. Check out the "Things to Do" section for ideas! Please arrive for cocktail hour at Oxford Exchange promptly at 6:30pm.What’s the weather like?Sarasota and Tampa are usually warm and sunny, but it never hurts to check the forecast closer to the date. Luckily for us, we will be inside for both the ceremony and reception.What if I have dietary restrictions?Please let us know ahead of time, and we’ll make sure there’s something delicious for you to enjoy.When is the RSVP deadline?Kindly RSVP by April 21st so we can plan accordingly.Where can I stay?We’ve put together a list of recommended hotels in both Sarasota and Tampa on the "Travel" section of this site.I have more questions. How can I reach you?Feel free to contact Amanda or Ben!&nbsp;

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We’re so excited to have you join us for our special day! To make your travel planning easier, we’ve gathered some helpful information about airports and hotel accommodations in both Sarasota and Tampa. Airports:Sarasota-Bradenton International Airport (SRQ): Conveniently located just a short drive from downtown Sarasota.Tampa International Airport (TPA): A larger airport with more flight options, about an hour's drive from Sarasota and close to downtown Tampa. Sarasota Hotels:Aloft SarasotaModern and stylish, offering a vibrant atmosphere and rooftop pool.The Ritz-Carlton, SarasotaIndulge in elegant accommodations, a private beach club, and top-tier service.The Westin SarasotaUpscale comfort with stunning rooftop views and a prime downtown location.St. Regis SarasotaExperience unparalleled luxury with world-class service and breathtaking waterfront views. Tampa Hotels (Near Downtown &amp; Oxford Exchange):For our guests spending time in Tampa, especially near the Oxford Exchange, here are some fantastic nearby options:Hotel HayaLocated in the historic Ybor City neighborhood, blending culture and comfort.Hilton Tampa DowntownConveniently located with modern amenities and a rooftop pool.Tampa Marriott Water StreetWaterfront luxury with beautiful views and upscale amenities.The Edition TampaSleek and sophisticated, offering top-tier service in the heart of downtown.JW Marriott Tampa Water StreetA stunning blend of modern elegance and comfort, perfect for a luxurious stay. We hope this helps make your travel planning a breeze. We can’t wait to celebrate with you soon!

Travel

We’re so excited to have you join us for our wedding! Whether you have some time to explore or just want a cozy spot to relax, we’ve put together a list of fun things to do in Sarasota and Tampa. If you find yourself with a couple of hours to spare between the ceremony and reception, especially around Oxford Exchange in Tampa, here are some great options to check out: Sarasota, FLThe Ringling MuseumStep into a world of art, history, and a touch of whimsy. The Ringling offers stunning galleries, beautiful gardens, and the breathtaking Ca' d'Zan Mansion — John and Mable Ringling's Venetian-inspired waterfront estate.Siesta Key BeachIf you’re in the mood to unwind, Siesta Key Beach is the perfect place to dig your toes into powdery white sand and enjoy the Gulf breeze. It’s consistently ranked as one of the best beaches in the U.S.!Marie Selby Botanical GardensA tranquil retreat in the heart of Sarasota, Selby Gardens showcases lush greenery and stunning bayfront views. It’s a lovely place to take a peaceful stroll.Mote Marine Laboratory &amp; AquariumGet up close with fascinating marine life, from sea turtles to playful otters. It’s a fun and educational stop for ocean lovers of all ages.St. Armands CircleFor a dose of shopping and dining, St. Armands Circle is a lively area full of unique boutiques, delicious restaurants, and local art galleries. Tampa, FL If you’re looking for a little adventure or a relaxing drink before the reception, here are some nearby spots worth checking out:Henry B. Plant MuseumJust across the street from Oxford Exchange, this museum offers a peek into Florida’s opulent Gilded Age. The building itself is a stunning piece of architecture, originally part of the historic Tampa Bay Hotel.Tampa RiverwalkFor a refreshing walk, head to the scenic Tampa Riverwalk. It stretches along the Hillsborough River and offers lovely views, public art, and occasional street performers. Hyde Park VillageA charming neighborhood just a short drive away, Hyde Park Village features upscale shops, cute cafes, and plenty of spots to grab a bite. Coffee &amp; Tea Spots:Buddy Brew Coffee – A local favorite for craft coffee and a cozy atmosphere. Perfect for a quick caffeine fix.Foundation Coffee Co. – Located nearby, this spot offers artisanal coffee and a peaceful outdoor patio. Cocktails &amp; Light Bites:The Gin Joint – An intimate cocktail bar offering creative drinks and a relaxed vibe, perfect for winding down.Hotel Bar – Known for its classic cocktails inspired by famous hotel bars around the world, this chic spot is great for a pre-reception toast.Tori – Right next to Oxford Exchange, Tori Bar is a sleek spot serving up delicious cocktails with a stylish ambiance — ideal for a quick drink before the festivities. Whether you choose to relax on the beach, explore a museum, or sip a craft cocktail, we hope you enjoy every moment. We can’t wait to celebrate with you!

Amanda & Benjamin

Amanda & Benjamin

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