IMPORTANT NOTE:
Questions and answers may be subjected to change if anything comes up. That said, please do not hesitate to reach out to us if you have any questions that are not listed in the Q & A.
Yes, they are listed under the Wedding Day Timeframe tab (coming soon!) on our website. They are fully detailed and you can refer to them at any time. We will do our best to keep in schedule.
Simply scan the QR code or type in the URL listed on the invitation. It should take you to the RSVP section, or you can find the RSVP tab on our website.
Please Respond swiftly by or before: Friday, September 12th, 2025
If changes are needed, please get back with us before the RSVP date, which is Friday, September 12th, 2025. While changes are no issue, please be sure you finalized your decision.
Unless your received invitation states a Plus One, you cannot bring a guest with you. This is due to the guest count we can hold and afford.
As long they are named in the invitation, then yes. Otherwise, we will recommend getting a babysitter or caregiver. There is nothing personal, this is due to the guest count we can hold and afford for the venue.
The attire for this event is business causal. You may have already procured the outfit in your closet. In any case, here are the guidelines below.
For the Ladies: a nice flowy (A-Line) dress, blouse or skirt, dress pants or khakis, dress suit, shirt or vest.
For the Gentlemen: a nice dress suit, shirt or vest, dress pants or khakis. If a flowy skirt is comfortable for you, please wear it (we will not judge).
Extra credit (optional): Tints and Shades of Pink and Green (no neon please). Fun accessories like jewelry and bowties (because bowties are cool!) Flower hairclips would be cool to see too!
If you have any questions and concerns, or would like to send pictures of the outfit you would like to wear to the event, you can acquire here with the subject titled "Suitable Attire for Wedding":
LadyJuxtaposition@gmail.com
There are no transportation to the venue at this time.
Our highest recommendation for the hotel is the one right next door to the venue. The same hotel is also what we will highly recommended for our wedding party. We also included some others nearby in the Travel tab of the website.
In regards of wedding gifting, our highest recommendation will be monetary donations to go towards improving our house and funds for our honeymoon. However, we welcome any gifts listed in our Registry.
We ask all to NOT take out your phones and take pictures during the ceremony. We will let the professionals of the TWA Photographic Artists to capture wonderful moments. We planned to put together a DVD album for all guests as a memorable party favor after the wedding.
Taking personal pictures with the bride and groom and with people are okay during the reception. However, please do keep them at the minimum or take the pictures outside of the Stout & Lager Room.
The good news is that you can still witness the ceremony via the windows to the gazebo. The bad news is that you cannot enter once the ceremony begins.
That said, we will highly recommend being early rather than on time so you won't be closed out (doors closed on you). About 10-15 minutes early before the ceremony will be the ideal.
Yes, you can! Our DJ from Spinnin Discs will be happy to play any song you can think of!
We will ask that your song requests be at PG and maybe PG-13 since we do have children running (or dancing) about.
We will have the buffet styled dinner during the reception with no seating arrangements. We will also have special dishes for those with dietary restrictions and food allergies. Please wait for everyone to get their first dish before getting seconds.
As for drinks, we have a compliment cocktail at the bar between ceremony and reception. There will be coffee and decaf coffee to go with the cake.
More detailed information about what kind of food and drinks served will be found on the Buffet Menu tab on this website.